When we think of Christmas, we think of a baby, a mom, shepherds, gifts, joy, peace, kings......but that's not the whole story. I want to take a pause for a moment and look in into the "rest of the story."
Revelations 12 gives us some insight into the Christmas story. It tells us that while there is a physical reality to the story, the story behind the story is that a dragon -- the devil -- knew that "the salvation and power and kingdom of our God" was coming. It also, tells us that there was a great war and that the "Accuser has been thrown down to the earth," and that he was "ready to devour the baby as soon as it was born." It goes on to tell us that we "have defeated him [the accuser] because of the blood of the Lamb," but that since the dragon couldn't kill the child he "became angry at the woman, and he declared war against the rest of her children -- all who keep God's commandments and confess that they belong to Jesus." (12:17).
We need to celebrate Christmas and enjoy the fact that he has come. Salvation and power have come. But, we need to be on guard knowing that the devil has waged war against each of us. The war looks different at times but it is a war nonetheless. We must be alert and remember, that he is already defeated because of what that child did. And, we must remember God's promises. Here are a few: all God's promises in Jesus are yes; I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me; he that is in you is greater than he that is in the world; he will never leave you nor forsake you; we can go boldly to the throne of grace to find mercy and grace in our time of need; he is able to do exceedingly, abundantly more than we can ask or imagine; and all things work together for the good of those that love him and are called according to his purpose.
That's the rest of the story.....
Monday, December 21, 2009
Friday, December 4, 2009
People Are The Purpose
In John. 6, we read, "When Jesus looked up and saw a great crowd coming toward him, he said to Philip, "Where shall we buy bread for these people to eat?" 6He asked this only to test him, for he already had in mind what he was going to do. 7Philip answered him, "Eight months' wages[a] would not buy enough bread for each one to have a bite!"'
Now, to set the context, we learn from Mark and Luke that the disciples had just been sent out by Jesus and they had performed miracles and cast out demons. We also learn that Herod had beheaded John and on that day sent would that he wanted to see Jesus (wonder if that meeting would be as productive???). Lastly, we learn that the disciples wanted Jesus to send the people away. And, initially, can you blame them? They went there to rest. Jesus was a marked man and wanted rest too. But, Mark gives us the insight and the key to understanding this dialogue (I think). Mark says, "When Jesus landed and saw a large crowd, he had compassion on them, because they were like sheep without a shepherd. So he began teaching them many things."
Now, back to John (and the other accounts). I think, to be quite honest, the disciples knew exactly what Jesus could do. Heck, they just got done performing miracles themselves. But, Jesus wanted to "test" Philip. I used to look at this passage as a test into the belief that Jesus COULD feed them people. I don't think that was the main issue -- though it may have been an issue. I think he wanted to reveal to the disciples what the disciples had going on inside them. The disciples wanted rest. They wanted the people to go home. The didn't realize that people are the purpose. They lacked the key ingredient that Jesus had -- compassion.
They were not concerned at all about the people and the fact that the people were " like sheep without a shepherd." At least it is not mentioned. Now, I understand the balance that one must strike between our personal needs and the needs of others. But, to be honest, most of us do just fine looking out for ourselves. And, I bet you if Jesus said upon the disciples arrival, "hey, I'm gonna give you power over demons again go cast some out for the next hour" they would have jumped on it. But, this was less glamorous. People are there. No demos to be cast out. And, yet the most amazing gift to be given -- Jesus and his love.
Think about it. Are you motivated by compassion? Do you have margin in your life so that you can be "interrupted" be people? Remember, people are the purpose.
Now, to set the context, we learn from Mark and Luke that the disciples had just been sent out by Jesus and they had performed miracles and cast out demons. We also learn that Herod had beheaded John and on that day sent would that he wanted to see Jesus (wonder if that meeting would be as productive???). Lastly, we learn that the disciples wanted Jesus to send the people away. And, initially, can you blame them? They went there to rest. Jesus was a marked man and wanted rest too. But, Mark gives us the insight and the key to understanding this dialogue (I think). Mark says, "When Jesus landed and saw a large crowd, he had compassion on them, because they were like sheep without a shepherd. So he began teaching them many things."
Now, back to John (and the other accounts). I think, to be quite honest, the disciples knew exactly what Jesus could do. Heck, they just got done performing miracles themselves. But, Jesus wanted to "test" Philip. I used to look at this passage as a test into the belief that Jesus COULD feed them people. I don't think that was the main issue -- though it may have been an issue. I think he wanted to reveal to the disciples what the disciples had going on inside them. The disciples wanted rest. They wanted the people to go home. The didn't realize that people are the purpose. They lacked the key ingredient that Jesus had -- compassion.
They were not concerned at all about the people and the fact that the people were " like sheep without a shepherd." At least it is not mentioned. Now, I understand the balance that one must strike between our personal needs and the needs of others. But, to be honest, most of us do just fine looking out for ourselves. And, I bet you if Jesus said upon the disciples arrival, "hey, I'm gonna give you power over demons again go cast some out for the next hour" they would have jumped on it. But, this was less glamorous. People are there. No demos to be cast out. And, yet the most amazing gift to be given -- Jesus and his love.
Think about it. Are you motivated by compassion? Do you have margin in your life so that you can be "interrupted" be people? Remember, people are the purpose.
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Foundations
I read an article today about the mastermind of a ponzi scheme in SoFLA. Here is an excerpt: "Fort Lauderdale attorney Scott Rothstein turned himself in to the FBI field office in North Miami Beach at about 7: 45 a.m. Tuesday, WFOR-Ch. 4reports.Rothstein, 47, is accused of running a $1 billion Ponzi scheme from his Fort Lauderdale law firm. He was seen walking into the FBI office in handcuffs."
I am sure many of us have heard about this man for all the wrong reasons. First, it was because of his "success" and now because of his demise. It all got me to thinking about what matters most and how we build our homes. Jesus says the following about building our foundations In Matt 7:
24-25"These words I speak to you are not incidental additions to your life, homeowner improvements to your standard of living. They are foundational words, words to build a life on. If you work these words into your life, you are like a smart carpenter who built his house on solid rock. Rain poured down, the river flooded, a tornado hit—but nothing moved that house. It was fixed to the rock.
26-27"But if you just use my words in Bible studies and don't work them into your life, you are like a stupid carpenter who built his house on the sandy beach. When a storm rolled in and the waves came up, it collapsed like a house of cards."
Wow. I want to build a good foundation so that when the storms come I will be a "smart" carpenter and not the "stupid" carpenter. So, the natural question is what "words" do we need to put into practice? If you look back, it is the Sermon on the Mount. Jesus is exposing that God is more concerned with internal motivation than external rigidity. He wants us to love others as ourselves, to know that our lives should be lives of worship to God, to know that God sees all we do -- even in private and will reward us for that, that it all boils down to our relationship with him and with others. Those are his words.
So, the question is why is it so difficult? I went to the site of the World Trade Center over the weekend. I go there every time in NYC to remember. This time what stuck me was how deep into the ground the building went -- the foundation. It looks like there is no progress being made on the new building and you see that's just it. Foundations take time and there is no "gratification" when building a foundation -- there's nothing to see. Of course, when laid properly -- to the rock -- nothing will move the house. But, we all want to see the fruit of our labor. Jesus, however, says, "build the right foundation and you will see the fruit in time.....trust me." Of course, that's the battle isn't it, trust?
My encouragement is to build the foundation. Make them "foundational words." Storms will come. Start today. Here is an easy next step. Choose one of these to do:
1. Thank God for how he has provided.
2. "Find a quiet, secluded place so you won't be tempted to role-play before God. Just be there as simply and honestly as you can manage. "
3. Call your wife and thank her for what she does -- be specific like "Thanks for making sure the kids have dinner every night" or "thanks for being my friend even when I mess up."
Be the smart carpenter!
I am sure many of us have heard about this man for all the wrong reasons. First, it was because of his "success" and now because of his demise. It all got me to thinking about what matters most and how we build our homes. Jesus says the following about building our foundations In Matt 7:
24-25"These words I speak to you are not incidental additions to your life, homeowner improvements to your standard of living. They are foundational words, words to build a life on. If you work these words into your life, you are like a smart carpenter who built his house on solid rock. Rain poured down, the river flooded, a tornado hit—but nothing moved that house. It was fixed to the rock.
26-27"But if you just use my words in Bible studies and don't work them into your life, you are like a stupid carpenter who built his house on the sandy beach. When a storm rolled in and the waves came up, it collapsed like a house of cards."
Wow. I want to build a good foundation so that when the storms come I will be a "smart" carpenter and not the "stupid" carpenter. So, the natural question is what "words" do we need to put into practice? If you look back, it is the Sermon on the Mount. Jesus is exposing that God is more concerned with internal motivation than external rigidity. He wants us to love others as ourselves, to know that our lives should be lives of worship to God, to know that God sees all we do -- even in private and will reward us for that, that it all boils down to our relationship with him and with others. Those are his words.
So, the question is why is it so difficult? I went to the site of the World Trade Center over the weekend. I go there every time in NYC to remember. This time what stuck me was how deep into the ground the building went -- the foundation. It looks like there is no progress being made on the new building and you see that's just it. Foundations take time and there is no "gratification" when building a foundation -- there's nothing to see. Of course, when laid properly -- to the rock -- nothing will move the house. But, we all want to see the fruit of our labor. Jesus, however, says, "build the right foundation and you will see the fruit in time.....trust me." Of course, that's the battle isn't it, trust?
My encouragement is to build the foundation. Make them "foundational words." Storms will come. Start today. Here is an easy next step. Choose one of these to do:
1. Thank God for how he has provided.
2. "Find a quiet, secluded place so you won't be tempted to role-play before God. Just be there as simply and honestly as you can manage. "
3. Call your wife and thank her for what she does -- be specific like "Thanks for making sure the kids have dinner every night" or "thanks for being my friend even when I mess up."
Be the smart carpenter!
Monday, November 30, 2009
Frankness
Prov 28:23 says, "In the end, people appreciate frankness more than flattery." I've been thinking about that and what that means. How does one be "frank" or honest? When does one do that? And, how does one accept it?
The "how" and the "when" are intertwined. My thoughts are that, generally, being frank is done best in the context of a relationship with another person. We've all seen that guy who is "frank" and yet no one listens wearing the billboard "repent!" You know, I have never seen one person walk up to a guy like that and say, "finally, now I get it." So, I think the "when" part is, normally, in the context of relationship and also when emotions are less likely to cloud the message. What I mean by this is that when Stephanie and I have a discussion (argument :)), we try to employ the 24 hour rule. If there is something that we need to be frank with one another about, we normally wait 24 hours to make sure the emotions have subsided and don't cloud the message.
And, when we do speak about it, the context ("how") must always be love. Love must motivate me to speak to someone with "frankness." It in fact should compel me. And, when done in love there is always encouragement and grace sprinkled in. The reality is that God's desire is for all of us to grow in spite of setbacks and this is done by grace.
Lastly, when you are on the receiving end, be thankful. Whether the "when" or the "how" is correct, see it as an opportunity to grow. Don't be defensive. Ask God to reveal to you whether the principle in the message is true. And, if the when and the how are true, thank God for a friend that truly loves you.
The "how" and the "when" are intertwined. My thoughts are that, generally, being frank is done best in the context of a relationship with another person. We've all seen that guy who is "frank" and yet no one listens wearing the billboard "repent!" You know, I have never seen one person walk up to a guy like that and say, "finally, now I get it." So, I think the "when" part is, normally, in the context of relationship and also when emotions are less likely to cloud the message. What I mean by this is that when Stephanie and I have a discussion (argument :)), we try to employ the 24 hour rule. If there is something that we need to be frank with one another about, we normally wait 24 hours to make sure the emotions have subsided and don't cloud the message.
And, when we do speak about it, the context ("how") must always be love. Love must motivate me to speak to someone with "frankness." It in fact should compel me. And, when done in love there is always encouragement and grace sprinkled in. The reality is that God's desire is for all of us to grow in spite of setbacks and this is done by grace.
Lastly, when you are on the receiving end, be thankful. Whether the "when" or the "how" is correct, see it as an opportunity to grow. Don't be defensive. Ask God to reveal to you whether the principle in the message is true. And, if the when and the how are true, thank God for a friend that truly loves you.
Monday, November 23, 2009
New Life
I sat in the bed with my son. He turned 4 and was going down for a nap. He said he was going to get big. Then, he asked me the hardest question, after I am big will I get small again or will I die? Even now, it brings tears to my eyes. I told him he would be in heaven doing what he loves the most. Man, death. That's what we give our children from our natural nature. 1 Pet. 1:23 says, "For you have been born again. Your new life did not come from your earthly parents [ME] because the life they gave you will end in death. But this new life will last forever because it comes from the eternal, living word of God." Wow!
Paul uses the new life as motivation to "see to it that you really do love each other intensely with all your hearts." So, that's it. We are to love. That's what it is all about. A few questions:
1. What does love motivate you to do?
2. How does your love show to those in your life -- relationships?
3. How does love show itself to those that you casually now?
Paul uses the new life as motivation to "see to it that you really do love each other intensely with all your hearts." So, that's it. We are to love. That's what it is all about. A few questions:
1. What does love motivate you to do?
2. How does your love show to those in your life -- relationships?
3. How does love show itself to those that you casually now?
Monday, November 2, 2009
Customs
How many of you have gone to a different country than the one you are from and thought "man, that's a strange custom." For example, Bulgarians nod when disagreeing with you, and shake their head when agreeing. And, using the American gesture for "OK" (the thumb and forefinger making a circle with the other fingers pointing up) can be embarrassing. In Brazil that gesture means "screw you": in Japan it means "money": in Southern France it means "zero" or "worthless".
The point is that many countries have different customs -- not right or wrong, just different. Some, in fact, mean exactly the opposite of what we would be communicating in the U.S., which brings me to the point of this message.
We are told that, "our citizenship is in heaven" (Phil 3:20) and that, "we are therefore Christ's ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us" (2 Cor. 5:20). And, Peter says, "dear friends, I urge you, live as aliens and strangers in the world, to abstain from sinful desires, which war against your soul. Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us" (1 Pet. 2:20).
You see, God wants us to remember whose customs we are to follow. He wants us to remember what country we are from. We are told that we are aliens here. Now, most of the time when a foreign national comes to the U.S. he retains his customs from his home country and the language of the home country. The same applies to us.
For those of us that are from the country called "Heaven," God tells us that we should have "such good lives [customs]" that others will actually glorify God when He comes. Even those they accused us of wrong doing. Let me ask you this, in your business deals and your workplace, are you so far from reproach that others make fun of you because you won't just turn a blind eye? Do they accuse you of being a "company man" in representing the interests of your employer? What customs -- principles -- did Jesus tell us to live by that would be "radical" from this country's customs?
Regarding the language of Heaven, does your speech give life? Is it peppered with Grace? Do you honor God when you have the opportunity?
We are aliens. We are ambassadors and wherever we set foot, we can claim that land as Heaven's soil. But, in doing so the customs and the language come too.
The point is that many countries have different customs -- not right or wrong, just different. Some, in fact, mean exactly the opposite of what we would be communicating in the U.S., which brings me to the point of this message.
We are told that, "our citizenship is in heaven" (Phil 3:20) and that, "we are therefore Christ's ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us" (2 Cor. 5:20). And, Peter says, "dear friends, I urge you, live as aliens and strangers in the world, to abstain from sinful desires, which war against your soul. Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us" (1 Pet. 2:20).
You see, God wants us to remember whose customs we are to follow. He wants us to remember what country we are from. We are told that we are aliens here. Now, most of the time when a foreign national comes to the U.S. he retains his customs from his home country and the language of the home country. The same applies to us.
For those of us that are from the country called "Heaven," God tells us that we should have "such good lives [customs]" that others will actually glorify God when He comes. Even those they accused us of wrong doing. Let me ask you this, in your business deals and your workplace, are you so far from reproach that others make fun of you because you won't just turn a blind eye? Do they accuse you of being a "company man" in representing the interests of your employer? What customs -- principles -- did Jesus tell us to live by that would be "radical" from this country's customs?
Regarding the language of Heaven, does your speech give life? Is it peppered with Grace? Do you honor God when you have the opportunity?
We are aliens. We are ambassadors and wherever we set foot, we can claim that land as Heaven's soil. But, in doing so the customs and the language come too.
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Healing
In the end of John 4 and the beginning of John 5, we have two people that are sick -- a son of an official and a lame man. In both stories the person is healed. And, in both stories, we see the action of the person asking the request. The official goes home and the lame man walks. What we see is that Jesus' words give life. They bring healing -- physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. But, we must exercise faith in his words, his truth.
And, there is a twist on the stories. For the official's son, it was the official's faith that healed the son. He went to Jesus on behalf of his son. For the lame man, Jesus gave him the power to walk (power over the effect of sin because at the end of the day all sickness is a result of the fall) and then told him, "now you are well; so stop sinning." The obvious questions are was this sickness result of a particular sin of his, was he exhibiting jealously or envy of those that could walk? Of that I am not sure, but here is the principle, Jesus heals, gives us his power, and then asks us to live right (stop sinning).
So, for us today:
1. Is there someone that could use your prayer? your faith for a particular situation? Take time and pray for that person.
2. Do you feel lame, crippled by sin? Ask Jesus to heal you of that.
And, there is a twist on the stories. For the official's son, it was the official's faith that healed the son. He went to Jesus on behalf of his son. For the lame man, Jesus gave him the power to walk (power over the effect of sin because at the end of the day all sickness is a result of the fall) and then told him, "now you are well; so stop sinning." The obvious questions are was this sickness result of a particular sin of his, was he exhibiting jealously or envy of those that could walk? Of that I am not sure, but here is the principle, Jesus heals, gives us his power, and then asks us to live right (stop sinning).
So, for us today:
1. Is there someone that could use your prayer? your faith for a particular situation? Take time and pray for that person.
2. Do you feel lame, crippled by sin? Ask Jesus to heal you of that.
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
A Basic Thought
Normally my entires are longer. But, today, a really simple thought: God doesn't want me to endure life, he want me to enjoy life.
Monday, October 19, 2009
Advisers
In 2 Chron 10, Rehoboam was made king after his father Solomon. Solomon was the wisest and richest man to live and had ruled all of Israel -- the northern and southern kingdoms -- for 40 years. When Rehoboam was made king, the northern kingdom asked him to make life a little easier on them. He asked for 3 days to consult with advisers.
His first consultation was with those that were advisers to his father. They told him to be kind and then the people will be his servants for a lifetime. Then, he went to his friends he grew up with that were now his advisers. They disagreed and told him to make the load heavier than his father. And, Rehoboam did exactly what he friends told him to do.
I have a couple of questions: Rehoboam had never ruled before and neither had his friends. Why did they think they knew what was best? What would have been the harm in being kind? Why wouldn't he listen to the wisdom of men that had supported his father and advised the wisest man on earth? Why didn't he inquire of God as well?
Here are my thoughts: Rehoboam wanted his answer and he was open to asking until he got it. He wanted to show that he was in control and it was his kingdom. He was going to make a name for himself (and he did as the northern kingdom split away and never was ruled by him). His pride contributed to his downfall. And, I think, his friends didn't have the courage to tell him what they really thought (or they just went along with it without questioning). But, when that happens, we need to look at ourselves and ask whether we have created an environment of trust and authenticity or an environment of fear and passive acceptance. The truth is that the first advisers were right. Heck, they had the facts and experience necessary to make the appropriate decision. In transition, what does it cost to leave trustworthy advisers around for guidance while you learn the ropes? Your ego.
I know that we can't always rely on past advisers and that at some point we must move on. But, that is not the issue here. The issue is making sure that we don't let ego get in the way and that we are creating open and honest relationships for open and honest dialogues.
One simple question, do you want to know that you've done all you can to avoid a Rehoboam situation? If so, ask God to foster truth telling relationships and be open.
His first consultation was with those that were advisers to his father. They told him to be kind and then the people will be his servants for a lifetime. Then, he went to his friends he grew up with that were now his advisers. They disagreed and told him to make the load heavier than his father. And, Rehoboam did exactly what he friends told him to do.
I have a couple of questions: Rehoboam had never ruled before and neither had his friends. Why did they think they knew what was best? What would have been the harm in being kind? Why wouldn't he listen to the wisdom of men that had supported his father and advised the wisest man on earth? Why didn't he inquire of God as well?
Here are my thoughts: Rehoboam wanted his answer and he was open to asking until he got it. He wanted to show that he was in control and it was his kingdom. He was going to make a name for himself (and he did as the northern kingdom split away and never was ruled by him). His pride contributed to his downfall. And, I think, his friends didn't have the courage to tell him what they really thought (or they just went along with it without questioning). But, when that happens, we need to look at ourselves and ask whether we have created an environment of trust and authenticity or an environment of fear and passive acceptance. The truth is that the first advisers were right. Heck, they had the facts and experience necessary to make the appropriate decision. In transition, what does it cost to leave trustworthy advisers around for guidance while you learn the ropes? Your ego.
I know that we can't always rely on past advisers and that at some point we must move on. But, that is not the issue here. The issue is making sure that we don't let ego get in the way and that we are creating open and honest relationships for open and honest dialogues.
One simple question, do you want to know that you've done all you can to avoid a Rehoboam situation? If so, ask God to foster truth telling relationships and be open.
Friday, October 16, 2009
Lingering
I read John 8 today and saw it in a new light, specifically the part about the woman being caught in the act of adultery. Of course, some basic comments are: were is the man? can you believe that the religious leaders dragged her and interrupted Jesus as he was talking? How desperate must they be to save their world as they know it? But, I want to focus for a couple seconds on the woman.
The woman is there (I assume with a sheet???) and is a pawn of the religious community. Have you ever felt like a pawn? I have. In any event, here she is and they begin to use her to trap Jesus. Jesus doesn't comment directly to her until the show is over --until each person has left. And, for her to hear His words she had to linger. Her accusers left and she could have too. But, she didn't. And, Jesus doesn't condemn here. No, he encourages her to live a life that honors God.
Jesus doesn't stand at the door waiting to condemn us. No not at all. He stands wanting to embrace us, forgive us, and encourage us. But you see many times, we don't linger and we miss the words Jesus wants to speak to us. Today, approach Jesus and linger. When all else is gone and it's you and him then he speaks.....
The woman is there (I assume with a sheet???) and is a pawn of the religious community. Have you ever felt like a pawn? I have. In any event, here she is and they begin to use her to trap Jesus. Jesus doesn't comment directly to her until the show is over --until each person has left. And, for her to hear His words she had to linger. Her accusers left and she could have too. But, she didn't. And, Jesus doesn't condemn here. No, he encourages her to live a life that honors God.
Jesus doesn't stand at the door waiting to condemn us. No not at all. He stands wanting to embrace us, forgive us, and encourage us. But you see many times, we don't linger and we miss the words Jesus wants to speak to us. Today, approach Jesus and linger. When all else is gone and it's you and him then he speaks.....
Thursday, October 1, 2009
Opportunities
God gives us opportunities to prove ourselves. Many times I have joked "only these crazy things happen to me." I never took a second to think as to whether God was trying to reveal something to me. And since I joked about how crazy they are, I always looked outside and not inside. But, God gives us opps to help us grow. He is a God of plans and action.
I noticed in Matthew 4 that God led Jesus out into the wilderness to be tempted. God also led Jesus to take up residence as an adult in a different town than as an adolescent. The point is that God takes us where we needs to go or let's us go where we need to go at other times. But, there is always a purpose.
Tomorrow, I have an opportunity to shine light. To not get angry. To not get upset. To not be impatient. So, I pause and embrace the fact that these things have happened FOR me not TO me and ask to learn....and act....
I noticed in Matthew 4 that God led Jesus out into the wilderness to be tempted. God also led Jesus to take up residence as an adult in a different town than as an adolescent. The point is that God takes us where we needs to go or let's us go where we need to go at other times. But, there is always a purpose.
Tomorrow, I have an opportunity to shine light. To not get angry. To not get upset. To not be impatient. So, I pause and embrace the fact that these things have happened FOR me not TO me and ask to learn....and act....
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Robbing God
Malachi is a pretty stern book to close the OT with. And, while there are many themes, I think the overriding theme is robbing God. I do not want to enter into a debate about tithing -- though this is where most of us believe the "robbing" comes in. I think robbing is the general theme. You see, we rob God when we don't give our best to whatever we do. We are his ambassadors -- his managers of our lives and those entrusted to us. And, when we don't put our best foot forward we rob him. If you look at Chapter 1, the priests rob God by giving a blemished sacrifice -- not the best. In Chapter 2, spouses rob God when they are not faithful to their spouse -- clearly, not the best example of keeping your marriage vows. And, in Chapter 3, all people robbed God by not giving the mandatory money to the temple.
So, I am presented with a very simple question: Where do I rob God?
So, I am presented with a very simple question: Where do I rob God?
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Refreshment
As I write this, I am thirsty. I had a cup of coffee with a friend but that wasn't refreshment. I am still thirsty. We all need refreshment -- physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.
In Isaiah 57:15, God tells us the secret to spiritual refreshment: For this is what the high and lofty One says— he who lives forever, whose name is holy: "I live in a high and holy place, but also with him who is contrite and lowly in spirit, to revive the spirit of the lowly and to revive the heart of the contrite."
The word revive is also translated refresh and "lowly in spirit" as "humble." God's desire is to refresh us. But, to do so, we must be humble (that's hard) and contrite (just not happy with our sinful behavior). Being humble -- or humility -- is misunderstood, I think. It is not being self deprecating or not acknowledging your gifting. Rather, it is understanding who you are in the context of who He is.
Jesus says it this way in Matt 5:5: :Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth." That word is also translated "humble" and it means strength under control and was used of stallions that are being ridden by its rider. They are very strong and yet under control. We need to be strong people under God's control and need to have a contrite disposition. When we have those two ingredients, then we will be refreshed.
Back to my thirst. Time to get a bottle of water. That will quench my thirst.
In Isaiah 57:15, God tells us the secret to spiritual refreshment: For this is what the high and lofty One says— he who lives forever, whose name is holy: "I live in a high and holy place, but also with him who is contrite and lowly in spirit, to revive the spirit of the lowly and to revive the heart of the contrite."
The word revive is also translated refresh and "lowly in spirit" as "humble." God's desire is to refresh us. But, to do so, we must be humble (that's hard) and contrite (just not happy with our sinful behavior). Being humble -- or humility -- is misunderstood, I think. It is not being self deprecating or not acknowledging your gifting. Rather, it is understanding who you are in the context of who He is.
Jesus says it this way in Matt 5:5: :Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth." That word is also translated "humble" and it means strength under control and was used of stallions that are being ridden by its rider. They are very strong and yet under control. We need to be strong people under God's control and need to have a contrite disposition. When we have those two ingredients, then we will be refreshed.
Back to my thirst. Time to get a bottle of water. That will quench my thirst.
Monday, September 28, 2009
Running in the Background
All of us use computers. And, when we are using the computers we have "primary" programs and programs running in the background. What I mean by that, is if I am in Word preparing a document, I will also have my email program running in the background and depending on what programs are running there could be reminders of an email or an appointment, etc.
Paul tells us to "pray at all times and on every occasion in the power of the Holy Spirit." Eph. 6:18. As I reflected on that, my thoughts were drawn to computers and the programs running in the background. While we should set aside time to pray -- no doubt, I think Paul is telling us that the prayer program should always be running in the background by the "power of the Holy Spirit." So, we should always have a "God-consciousness" that allows us to communicate. We should keep that channel open throughout our day to get His perspective on our tasks, our priorities, our issues.
Try today to keep your prayer program running in the background.
Paul tells us to "pray at all times and on every occasion in the power of the Holy Spirit." Eph. 6:18. As I reflected on that, my thoughts were drawn to computers and the programs running in the background. While we should set aside time to pray -- no doubt, I think Paul is telling us that the prayer program should always be running in the background by the "power of the Holy Spirit." So, we should always have a "God-consciousness" that allows us to communicate. We should keep that channel open throughout our day to get His perspective on our tasks, our priorities, our issues.
Try today to keep your prayer program running in the background.
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Rainbows
I wanted to share an experience I had today with two rainbows. I believe that God speaks and wants to communicate with us daily -- even hourly. But, I know at times I am too busy. Pretty sad considering if I listened to His voice I would be guided into green pastures and abundant life. More on that later. In any event, the genesis of the rainbow is God. Here is what God said about the rainbow in Genesis 9: "Then God said, “I am giving you a sign of my covenant with you and with all living creatures, for all generations to come. 13 I have placed my rainbow in the clouds. It is the sign of my covenant with you and with all the earth. 14When I send clouds over the earth, the rainbow will appear in the clouds, 15 and I will remember my covenant with you and with all living creatures. Never again will the floodwaters destroy all life. 16 When I see the rainbow in the clouds, I will remember the eternal covenant between God and every living creature on earth.” 17 Then God said to Noah, “Yes, this rainbow is the sign of the covenant I am confirming with all the creatures on earth.”
Before you begin to say, "yea, but a rainbow is the natural result of light refracting off of rain in the clouds," let me make some comments:
1. Genesis 2: 5 and 6 state "For the Lord God had not yet sent rain to water the earth, and there were no people to cultivate the soil. 6 Instead, springs[b] came up from the ground and watered all the land." So, it is highly probable that the first time it rained was when the flood came. This would make sense as it relates to the fossil records in the North and South Pole (if that interests you, we can talk about that later).
2. How cool is it that God used an event that occurs because of what he put in place to remind US that he is a God that keeps promises.
Back to my experience. I was reading an email that had less than great news. Took a deep breath and for some reason looked up. There they were -- two rainbows -- one full one half. God spoke to me through that saying "I keep promises." Humbled, I paused, agreed and moved on with my day.
And, Noah? "But Noah found favor with the Lord....He walked in close fellowship with God." He acted in faith on what God said believing God would do what he said. God could have protected Noah but required that Noah do his part. One simple question in a story filled with awesome truths:
What is God calling you to do before He will act on your behalf?
Before you begin to say, "yea, but a rainbow is the natural result of light refracting off of rain in the clouds," let me make some comments:
1. Genesis 2: 5 and 6 state "For the Lord God had not yet sent rain to water the earth, and there were no people to cultivate the soil. 6 Instead, springs[b] came up from the ground and watered all the land." So, it is highly probable that the first time it rained was when the flood came. This would make sense as it relates to the fossil records in the North and South Pole (if that interests you, we can talk about that later).
2. How cool is it that God used an event that occurs because of what he put in place to remind US that he is a God that keeps promises.
Back to my experience. I was reading an email that had less than great news. Took a deep breath and for some reason looked up. There they were -- two rainbows -- one full one half. God spoke to me through that saying "I keep promises." Humbled, I paused, agreed and moved on with my day.
And, Noah? "But Noah found favor with the Lord....He walked in close fellowship with God." He acted in faith on what God said believing God would do what he said. God could have protected Noah but required that Noah do his part. One simple question in a story filled with awesome truths:
What is God calling you to do before He will act on your behalf?
Friday, September 11, 2009
Seeds
Hey guys! Today is about seeds. The author takes us to the parable of the sower of the seeds. But, before that he challenges us saying: "It doesn't matter how significant our potfolio is or how ambitious your plans are. If all you're doing is accumulating things and trying to impress people, then the moment you die, your influence ends." Some other cool thoughts were:
"God never promised a life that's convenient and carefree. He does promise us an abundant life of joy without worry if we'll look to Him for our daily needs." I must confess that I desire the convenient and carefree but know that the other is far better.
and
"If I plant one seed, I don't get one seed or even one apple in return but a tree full of apples, season after season. A bushel of blessing comes from a tiny seed of faith.
And, so, two very simple questions: What seeds are you planting? And, where are you planting them.
Check out this video on the time it takes for one plant to grow from a seed. I promise you will love the short video.
http://www.skyquestcom.com/skyquestcom/community/ij/gui/Flash/enijunc20041015.swf
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"God never promised a life that's convenient and carefree. He does promise us an abundant life of joy without worry if we'll look to Him for our daily needs." I must confess that I desire the convenient and carefree but know that the other is far better.
and
"If I plant one seed, I don't get one seed or even one apple in return but a tree full of apples, season after season. A bushel of blessing comes from a tiny seed of faith.
And, so, two very simple questions: What seeds are you planting? And, where are you planting them.
Check out this video on the time it takes for one plant to grow from a seed. I promise you will love the short video.
http://www.skyquestcom.com/skyquestcom/community/ij/gui/Flash/enijunc20041015.swf
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Sandcastles
Today's lesson is about sandcastles. The author states that when kids make sandcastles they know (or realize) that the sandcastles will get washed away in the tide. And, they don't care. He makes this analogy as it relates to possessions. His point is that all our possessions on this earth will be washed away. And, if that is true, then we should enjoy the sandcastle but look to invest in things that don't wash away -- relationships. Jesus put it this way: "Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal." Matt. 6:19 & 20.
So, there are three tests: influence evaluation, affluence evaluation and obedience. Influence evaluation -- who are we influencing, affluence evaluation -- are we giving or our our possessions possessing us. God blesses us to be a blessing to others. Obedience exam -- are we doing what he would have us do? "He gives you just enough time to do everything you need to do, both in your day and your life.
I leave you with the song below. Read it. What set of Joneses will you choose to be?
This here's a song about two sets of Jones'
Rothchild, Evelyn, Rueben, and Sue
And just for discussion through random selection
We've chosen two couples who haven't a clue
Rothchild was lucky to marry so wealthy,
Evelyn bought him a house on the beach.
Rueben and Sue, they had nothing but Jesus
And at night they would pray that he would care for them each
Chorus:
And the rain, came down,
And it blew the four walls down
And the clouds they rolled away
And one set of Jones', was standing that day
Evelyn's daddy was proud of young Rothchild,
He worked the late hours to be number one
Just newly weds and their marriage got rocky,
He's flying to Dallas, she's having a son.
Rueben was holding, a Giddeon's Bible,
And he screamed "it's a boy" so that everyone heard
And the guys at the factory took a collection,
And again God provided for bills he incurred
(Chorus)
So what is the point of this story,
What am i trying to say
Well is your life built on the rock of Christ Jesus
Or a sandy foundation you've managed to lay
Well needless to say Evelyn left her husband
N' sued him for every penny he had
But I truly wish that those two would find Jesus
Before things get worse than they already have
(Chorus)
And the rain, came down,
And it blew the forewalls down
And the clouds they rolled away
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Take Care,
So, there are three tests: influence evaluation, affluence evaluation and obedience. Influence evaluation -- who are we influencing, affluence evaluation -- are we giving or our our possessions possessing us. God blesses us to be a blessing to others. Obedience exam -- are we doing what he would have us do? "He gives you just enough time to do everything you need to do, both in your day and your life.
I leave you with the song below. Read it. What set of Joneses will you choose to be?
This here's a song about two sets of Jones'
Rothchild, Evelyn, Rueben, and Sue
And just for discussion through random selection
We've chosen two couples who haven't a clue
Rothchild was lucky to marry so wealthy,
Evelyn bought him a house on the beach.
Rueben and Sue, they had nothing but Jesus
And at night they would pray that he would care for them each
Chorus:
And the rain, came down,
And it blew the four walls down
And the clouds they rolled away
And one set of Jones', was standing that day
Evelyn's daddy was proud of young Rothchild,
He worked the late hours to be number one
Just newly weds and their marriage got rocky,
He's flying to Dallas, she's having a son.
Rueben was holding, a Giddeon's Bible,
And he screamed "it's a boy" so that everyone heard
And the guys at the factory took a collection,
And again God provided for bills he incurred
(Chorus)
So what is the point of this story,
What am i trying to say
Well is your life built on the rock of Christ Jesus
Or a sandy foundation you've managed to lay
Well needless to say Evelyn left her husband
N' sued him for every penny he had
But I truly wish that those two would find Jesus
Before things get worse than they already have
(Chorus)
And the rain, came down,
And it blew the forewalls down
And the clouds they rolled away
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Take Care,
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
The Miraculous
Hey guys! Today's lesson is about a personal miracle. And, it was convicting. The author talks about the fact that God -- though not a genie -- is in the miracle business. He tells us that while there is no formula for God there are some road signs to follow -- some principles -- and if not followed, then we are simply not in a position to have a miracle work in our lives. The author uses the story located in 2 Kings 4:1.
His first point is that we must understand -- admit -- that there is a need. And until "we acknowledge that His intervention is essential and invite Him into the situation" God cannot work. This sounds pretty familiar to the story in which it was explained that "he [Jesus] did not do many miracles there because of their lack of faith."
Admitting a need -- that you cannot do it -- leads you to the next sign. That is, you realize that the only one that can meet that need is God.
Next, is a stop sign. The author tells us that we need to stop and take inventory of what we DO have. "So, you have to take everything you have and give it to Him. Your time, talent, resources, and energy, no matter how limited they may seem, are God's staring place. Your willingness and surrender activate God's intervention and blessings. This reminds me of the story of the willing boy. We call it the feeding of the 5,000. Here is the dialogue. "Philip answered him, "Eight months' wages would not buy enough bread for each one to have a bite!" Another of his disciples, Andrew, Simon Peter's brother, spoke up, "Here is a boy with five small barley loaves and two small fish, but how far will they go among so many?'" The boy was willing to give what he had and at least Andrew saw something. Andrew had faith mixed with doubt. Philip had certainty that disallowed faith. God can use a little boy's willingness and a grownup's faith mixed with doubt. He can't use those whose certainty negates faith.
The author makes a statement that you-turns are allowed. That is, the widow saw "a little oil." Andrew saw five crackers and two sardines. And, that is enough. See what you do have not what you don't. "Faith is not ignoring the present reality; it's acknowledging that with God all things are possible.
Lastly, he tells us there is a yield sign. The widow was told to look for empty vessels. The author's point to this is that we need to look for people to pour into. And, when we have a problem, normally, we focus on us. But, "the best advice I can give you when you're going through a problem is to look for empty vessels to pour yourself into." If we want to find our dreams the best way is to give away ourselves helping others find theirs. Jesus said it this way -- whoever saves his life will loose it and whoever looses his life will save it. INVEST YOUR LIFE INTO OTHERS. I also think this was a test of her faith. How foolish must she have looked to go to all her neighbors and tell them she needed jars for oil. She was dead broke! And, so there are two principles: find people to invest in and God "works in our lives about as much as we expect him to work in our lives." Jesus said it this way: "I tell you the truth, anyone who has faith in me will do what I have been doing. He will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father."
One other note, if you read on on Kings, the very next story involves a wealthy woman. The point is that we all NEED miracles.
As I sat on the plane yesterday and read this section, I was convicted. As some of you know, I have been in a very difficult financial position for about the last year. And, so, I paused, and asked God if I ever asked him in. I thought I did but couldn't remember. So, I asked for forgiveness if I hadn't and admitted my need to his miraculous touch.
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His first point is that we must understand -- admit -- that there is a need. And until "we acknowledge that His intervention is essential and invite Him into the situation" God cannot work. This sounds pretty familiar to the story in which it was explained that "he [Jesus] did not do many miracles there because of their lack of faith."
Admitting a need -- that you cannot do it -- leads you to the next sign. That is, you realize that the only one that can meet that need is God.
Next, is a stop sign. The author tells us that we need to stop and take inventory of what we DO have. "So, you have to take everything you have and give it to Him. Your time, talent, resources, and energy, no matter how limited they may seem, are God's staring place. Your willingness and surrender activate God's intervention and blessings. This reminds me of the story of the willing boy. We call it the feeding of the 5,000. Here is the dialogue. "Philip answered him, "Eight months' wages would not buy enough bread for each one to have a bite!" Another of his disciples, Andrew, Simon Peter's brother, spoke up, "Here is a boy with five small barley loaves and two small fish, but how far will they go among so many?'" The boy was willing to give what he had and at least Andrew saw something. Andrew had faith mixed with doubt. Philip had certainty that disallowed faith. God can use a little boy's willingness and a grownup's faith mixed with doubt. He can't use those whose certainty negates faith.
The author makes a statement that you-turns are allowed. That is, the widow saw "a little oil." Andrew saw five crackers and two sardines. And, that is enough. See what you do have not what you don't. "Faith is not ignoring the present reality; it's acknowledging that with God all things are possible.
Lastly, he tells us there is a yield sign. The widow was told to look for empty vessels. The author's point to this is that we need to look for people to pour into. And, when we have a problem, normally, we focus on us. But, "the best advice I can give you when you're going through a problem is to look for empty vessels to pour yourself into." If we want to find our dreams the best way is to give away ourselves helping others find theirs. Jesus said it this way -- whoever saves his life will loose it and whoever looses his life will save it. INVEST YOUR LIFE INTO OTHERS. I also think this was a test of her faith. How foolish must she have looked to go to all her neighbors and tell them she needed jars for oil. She was dead broke! And, so there are two principles: find people to invest in and God "works in our lives about as much as we expect him to work in our lives." Jesus said it this way: "I tell you the truth, anyone who has faith in me will do what I have been doing. He will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father."
One other note, if you read on on Kings, the very next story involves a wealthy woman. The point is that we all NEED miracles.
As I sat on the plane yesterday and read this section, I was convicted. As some of you know, I have been in a very difficult financial position for about the last year. And, so, I paused, and asked God if I ever asked him in. I thought I did but couldn't remember. So, I asked for forgiveness if I hadn't and admitted my need to his miraculous touch.
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Monday, September 7, 2009
Earthquakes
This whole section of the book has dealt with how we learn humbly. The reality is that none of us know everything, and we can improve the quality of our lives immensely if we are open to learning humbly from others and God. Today's, lesson is on earthquakes.
According to an article I read, "[f]rom a simplistic standpoint, an earthquake places a sideways load on a
building." And, so, the engineers need to determine how to develop a building that can withstand the sideways load. "One type of technology (which is very technical) is called isolated base technology. This involves using a coil or other flexible support and placing it between the structure and the foundation of the building. This system interacts the motion of the seismic waves. As the earthquake moves the foundation one way, the support moves the other way, and the building stays nearly completely stationary."
Taking this analogy, the buildings (lives) that will stand up under the sideways pressure best will be those with a flexible support. Let me apply this to our lives. Our foundation is the fact that Jesus Christ -- God -- became man, walked among us, and died for the sins of the world. There is none other. The flexible support is us and how much me have discovered the nonnegotiables, promises, and principles of the faith and then put them into practice. As we put them into practice and internalize what really are the nonnegotiables, we become flexible -- not rigid. Most "mature" Christians make preferences into nonnegotiables. Jesus never did. And, as such, he became very flexible. So, when he found out that his cousin was killed and the killer wanted to meet him :) and that 5000 people were hungry, he could withstand the earthquake. Heb. 4:15&16 says this about Jesus, "[f]or we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin. Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need." More on this in a second.
The author had some thoughts that stuck out to me. He said that our default is to do all we can and then when all else fails to say, "well, I guess there's nothing left to do but pray!" He goes on to say, "But this formula is backwards; prayer should be our first response, not our last resort. God says, 'Turn to Me first, pray about it, because I'm right here with you." He concludes that you'll know if God is truly the center if you stop worrying! That was CONVICTING to me.
The other thought was that God many times doesn't give use presents; rather, His PRESENCE in the storm. And, hey, sometimes we mistake God's presence for something else (see Matt. 14:24). In that story, once they recognized who the person was he blessed them with his presence and a present.
Back to Jesus. He had storms. He was tempted. Yet, his core -- his support -- was flexible. He did ministry much different than the religious elite but remained faithful to his core. You see, when we define ourselves by God's declaration (forgiven and set free) and apply daily the principles and promises of God, we can be very flexible. There really aren't as many nonnegotiables as I'd like to think either. The most mature -- the most ready for earthquakes -- will have a strong and flexible support built on the foundation of Christ.
Are you in an earthquake? Ask God for his presence. Remember, we have a high priest, Jesus that can sympathize. God boldly to the throne of grace and find the grace and mercy you need!
According to an article I read, "[f]rom a simplistic standpoint, an earthquake places a sideways load on a
building." And, so, the engineers need to determine how to develop a building that can withstand the sideways load. "One type of technology (which is very technical) is called isolated base technology. This involves using a coil or other flexible support and placing it between the structure and the foundation of the building. This system interacts the motion of the seismic waves. As the earthquake moves the foundation one way, the support moves the other way, and the building stays nearly completely stationary."
Taking this analogy, the buildings (lives) that will stand up under the sideways pressure best will be those with a flexible support. Let me apply this to our lives. Our foundation is the fact that Jesus Christ -- God -- became man, walked among us, and died for the sins of the world. There is none other. The flexible support is us and how much me have discovered the nonnegotiables, promises, and principles of the faith and then put them into practice. As we put them into practice and internalize what really are the nonnegotiables, we become flexible -- not rigid. Most "mature" Christians make preferences into nonnegotiables. Jesus never did. And, as such, he became very flexible. So, when he found out that his cousin was killed and the killer wanted to meet him :) and that 5000 people were hungry, he could withstand the earthquake. Heb. 4:15&16 says this about Jesus, "[f]or we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin. Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need." More on this in a second.
The author had some thoughts that stuck out to me. He said that our default is to do all we can and then when all else fails to say, "well, I guess there's nothing left to do but pray!" He goes on to say, "But this formula is backwards; prayer should be our first response, not our last resort. God says, 'Turn to Me first, pray about it, because I'm right here with you." He concludes that you'll know if God is truly the center if you stop worrying! That was CONVICTING to me.
The other thought was that God many times doesn't give use presents; rather, His PRESENCE in the storm. And, hey, sometimes we mistake God's presence for something else (see Matt. 14:24). In that story, once they recognized who the person was he blessed them with his presence and a present.
Back to Jesus. He had storms. He was tempted. Yet, his core -- his support -- was flexible. He did ministry much different than the religious elite but remained faithful to his core. You see, when we define ourselves by God's declaration (forgiven and set free) and apply daily the principles and promises of God, we can be very flexible. There really aren't as many nonnegotiables as I'd like to think either. The most mature -- the most ready for earthquakes -- will have a strong and flexible support built on the foundation of Christ.
Are you in an earthquake? Ask God for his presence. Remember, we have a high priest, Jesus that can sympathize. God boldly to the throne of grace and find the grace and mercy you need!
Saturday, September 5, 2009
Hurricanes
It was August 1992, and I was in Hollywood, FL waiting for what was to be a direct hit by a Cat 5 -- Hurricane Andrew. As I listened to the radio through the night, I wondered if our 1950's home would be OK. I thought "sure" since they were built better then.... In any event, a last minute wobble changed the landfall site 40 miles south and the damage to the metro area wasn't nearly as bad as it could have been. It was bad alright. I went to South Miami and Kendall to help and it looked like a war zone. But, I was thankful. It could have been much worse for us.
Hurricanes are far too familiar in our day to day lives. The author makes the the point that the only permanent thing in life is change. And, we need to learn to adapt. "Remaining in denial, attempting to control, or clinging to the past will never fulfill us. In fact, "you can be tempted to cling to the past and romanticize the way things used to be." A psychologist stated that "immaturity is demanding that reality adapt to you." I know that many times I want reality -- life -- to conform to how I think it should be. And, it doesn't. A mature person adapts to reality.
In James, we are told to "count it all joy....when you encounter various trials." We are told that there will be hurricanes in our lives. And, when they come, we have an opportunity; we can "count" it -- make a conscious decision that it will be -- joy or not. There can be joy in the hurricanes because we know that God works all things for good for those that love him and are called according to his purpose. Rom. 8:28.
I've been in the midst of a storm. I thought I was on the leeward side of the island away from the waves. And, all of a sudden, a rogue wave came this week. Of course, my first response was to require realty adapt to me. But, I chose and am choosing to trust that all things will work for good. That being the case, I embrace this reality, hold on, and adjust my perception to reality and to the truth that comes from the person know as Truth -- Jesus. Oh, also, I hope for a "wobble" knowing either way -- a direct hit or not -- there can be joy!
Hurricanes are far too familiar in our day to day lives. The author makes the the point that the only permanent thing in life is change. And, we need to learn to adapt. "Remaining in denial, attempting to control, or clinging to the past will never fulfill us. In fact, "you can be tempted to cling to the past and romanticize the way things used to be." A psychologist stated that "immaturity is demanding that reality adapt to you." I know that many times I want reality -- life -- to conform to how I think it should be. And, it doesn't. A mature person adapts to reality.
In James, we are told to "count it all joy....when you encounter various trials." We are told that there will be hurricanes in our lives. And, when they come, we have an opportunity; we can "count" it -- make a conscious decision that it will be -- joy or not. There can be joy in the hurricanes because we know that God works all things for good for those that love him and are called according to his purpose. Rom. 8:28.
I've been in the midst of a storm. I thought I was on the leeward side of the island away from the waves. And, all of a sudden, a rogue wave came this week. Of course, my first response was to require realty adapt to me. But, I chose and am choosing to trust that all things will work for good. That being the case, I embrace this reality, hold on, and adjust my perception to reality and to the truth that comes from the person know as Truth -- Jesus. Oh, also, I hope for a "wobble" knowing either way -- a direct hit or not -- there can be joy!
Friday, September 4, 2009
GPS
I like to fish. And, on my boat (that I used to have :(...) I have a GPS with a fish finder. And, during the winter months there was a great spot that a friend of mine had shown me off Key Largo. In any event, I marked that spot on my GPS and went back with regularity. One time I told my friend I was going fishing and he said he would be there. Well, as I approached the spot, he was fishing (guided by sight and not GPS) with no luck. As I followed my GPS, I thought it strange that he was about .25 miles off the spot. So, I continued to follow the GPS, and set up on the fish. He pulled his anchor and came along side me and began to catch fish.
The author uses the letters "GPS" to alliterate three core elements to define who we are to be: Gifts, Passions, and Struggles. He points out that David notes that we are "fearfully and wonderfully made," that God "knit us" in our mother's womb. And, he notes that God is a gift giver. He gives gifts to each of his children. He puts it this way: "We're all experts at something, and no one excels at everything." This statements cuts both ways. It is awesome to know that God has gifted me to be an expert in something and yet we must acknowledge that we are not gifted in everything. His suggestion is to: (a) ask God to reveal what your gifting is and (b) ask close friend(s) that will speak the truth what they see as your gifting. God made us with a purpose and when we try to be someone else or do something that is not our gifting we will never fulfill our potential. So, be open to feedback and embrace your gifting. It was impactful for me when his said that "we often behind such language [false modesty -- "I'm not that good"] as a way of avoiding the full responsibility of our gifting."
The next letter stands for passion. God places passions inside of us for a reason -- he wants us to pursue those passions. Psalm 37:4 says, "Delight yourself in the LORD; And He will give you the desires of your heart." You see, as we delight in Him and align ourselves with His world view the true desires (passions) of our hearts are revealed and then we begin to see how the gifting we have can be united with those passions.
Lastly, the author points out that the struggles in our lives point us to God. And, then, we can come along side others that have similar struggles. "God can take my struggles and turn them into stars."
Going back to fishing, my friend was being guided by sight. He was looking at landmarks. But, it wasn't good enough. And, because of that, he missed the spot. I didn't want to miss the spot and so I used my GPS. And, I was able to help him! Today, ask a few questions:
1. What gifts do I have? Don't ask what gifts do I want. Sit there. God has made you an expert! Ask a friend.
2. Ask what is your passion? What do you do that makes time and emotions fly?
3. What struggles do I have that God is using to mold me?
Ask how they can be molded into helping others.
The author uses the letters "GPS" to alliterate three core elements to define who we are to be: Gifts, Passions, and Struggles. He points out that David notes that we are "fearfully and wonderfully made," that God "knit us" in our mother's womb. And, he notes that God is a gift giver. He gives gifts to each of his children. He puts it this way: "We're all experts at something, and no one excels at everything." This statements cuts both ways. It is awesome to know that God has gifted me to be an expert in something and yet we must acknowledge that we are not gifted in everything. His suggestion is to: (a) ask God to reveal what your gifting is and (b) ask close friend(s) that will speak the truth what they see as your gifting. God made us with a purpose and when we try to be someone else or do something that is not our gifting we will never fulfill our potential. So, be open to feedback and embrace your gifting. It was impactful for me when his said that "we often behind such language [false modesty -- "I'm not that good"] as a way of avoiding the full responsibility of our gifting."
The next letter stands for passion. God places passions inside of us for a reason -- he wants us to pursue those passions. Psalm 37:4 says, "Delight yourself in the LORD; And He will give you the desires of your heart." You see, as we delight in Him and align ourselves with His world view the true desires (passions) of our hearts are revealed and then we begin to see how the gifting we have can be united with those passions.
Lastly, the author points out that the struggles in our lives point us to God. And, then, we can come along side others that have similar struggles. "God can take my struggles and turn them into stars."
Going back to fishing, my friend was being guided by sight. He was looking at landmarks. But, it wasn't good enough. And, because of that, he missed the spot. I didn't want to miss the spot and so I used my GPS. And, I was able to help him! Today, ask a few questions:
1. What gifts do I have? Don't ask what gifts do I want. Sit there. God has made you an expert! Ask a friend.
2. Ask what is your passion? What do you do that makes time and emotions fly?
3. What struggles do I have that God is using to mold me?
Ask how they can be molded into helping others.
Thursday, September 3, 2009
Star Power
Today is dealing with who we were meant to be. The author talks about the stars in the sky and how many there are. Raul and I were talking yesterday about going to the Tortugas -- 70 WNW of Key West -- on a boat and being out there at night. We have gone separately and had the same experience -- WOW! Seeing the sky with all the stars and no light is humbling and a sort of out of body experience. You realize the immensity of creation and consequently the Creator. The author takes us down that path and relates to us how David -- the the Psalms -- was in awe that the creator of the universe cared about him. Satan, of course, whispers, "no, you don't." But, remember, he is the father of lies and when he lies he speaks his natural language. Our identity is the son of the all powerful, all knowing, everywhere God (sound familiar from what Pastor Troy shared last night??? Cool how the book and he are crossing paths!).
Based on our identity and the fact that God is a creative God, he created all of us with unique talents and gifts. And, if we want to find our identity, it begins with humility and developing the potential in our greatest strengths. The author states that: "it's an insult to God when we focus on the gifts and passions we don't have and try to develop only our weak areas." To put it simply, use your greatest strength for the greatest good. I am excited about this section of the book as we talk about developing who we are in the context of humility. Some final thoughts (not mine) on maximizing potential:
1. Work hard.
2. Work hard at what comes easy. (Ex: Michael playing baseball vs. Michael playing basketball. He was a very good baseball player and yet he was the best basketball payer when he focused on that).
3. Work hard until it's not work.
4. Work hard on matters of eternal consequence.
Have a great day!
Based on our identity and the fact that God is a creative God, he created all of us with unique talents and gifts. And, if we want to find our identity, it begins with humility and developing the potential in our greatest strengths. The author states that: "it's an insult to God when we focus on the gifts and passions we don't have and try to develop only our weak areas." To put it simply, use your greatest strength for the greatest good. I am excited about this section of the book as we talk about developing who we are in the context of humility. Some final thoughts (not mine) on maximizing potential:
1. Work hard.
2. Work hard at what comes easy. (Ex: Michael playing baseball vs. Michael playing basketball. He was a very good baseball player and yet he was the best basketball payer when he focused on that).
3. Work hard until it's not work.
4. Work hard on matters of eternal consequence.
Have a great day!
Revealing Your Heart
Today's message deals with revealing your heart. There are a ton of good thoughts in this chapter, and I will share some personal examples. The author tells us that we have to move from "communication breakdown to communication breakthrough." It amazes me how "connected" people are and yet the disconnectedness. People simply do not know how to relate to one another. I asked a 22 year old in my office if she texts her sister when they are in the bedroom (they share the same room). The answer didn't surprise me, rather it confirmed my fears: "yes." We have become accustomed to living behind our phones and computers and don't know how to live face to face. That is tragic. We use other means because it is efficient. But, "whenever we skimp on communication in a relationship in order to be efficient, all effectiveness is lost." Real communication costs.
We have all heard the statement: "they don't care what you know until they know that you care." And, that may seem simplistic but most of the most profound statements are simple. The challenge is that simple doesn't mean easy. I once had a friend (who could eat all he wanted like 5 bowls of ice cream a day an NEVER gain weight) yell at another friend trying to loose weight: "just don't eat!" Yea right. Very simple and EASY to say. Hard to do. And, that's communication, a simple concept that's hard to do and yet we must.
The author encourages us to: admit mistakes, tell your needs, share what you're thinking. Most of us as leaders think this is dangerous. And, it is. It will unleash a unifying power like we have never seen before when we connect with others at the deepest level. I want to follow real people. None of us knows it al,l and none of us has it all together.
That all being said, we have to be truth tellers. And, that is just not easy. There is no "easy button" like Office Depot. But, we are told to speak the truth and love, seasoned with grace. We are called to be peace makers not peace keepers. And, we all know that a peace keeper does so through appeasement but there is never a real connection. A peace maker will speak the truth and strive towards peace through the truth. And, a peace maker is open to being wrong on a subject -- open to correction and admonition (more on this later). But, the bottom line is that "great relationships as well as great organizations are built on trust, and you build trust by telling the truth."
I want truth tellers in my life. In fact, yesterday, I asked a close friend to be a truth teller -- I gave him permission. I said, "I want you to tell me what I do well and what I do poorly. And, I want the truth." And now a personal example, I called a friend and told him a fear of mine a month or so ago. I thought he could probably relate. And, when I opened up -- was vulnerable (took off the mask), he ministered to me. It was refreshing. And, I don't think he thinks less of me.
If you are going to be a truth teller, always: (1) make sure that you have invested in the relationship, (2) pray and ask God if he would have you say it -- some times he just wants you to pray, (3) some times I ask a close confidant (not gossiping) the best manner to share my thought, and (4) be open to being wrong -- obviously you are a TRUTH teller and seeker. Now, about being open to correction (and that's hard!!!), I recently was speaking with a confidant about an issue that I thought maybe I should speak about. He told me, "no." And, that was it. I accepted his wisdom on that subject. I was wrong. But, I was thankful for his truth telling.
We all need truth tellers that are committed to our success -- our transformation into Christlikeness.
We have all heard the statement: "they don't care what you know until they know that you care." And, that may seem simplistic but most of the most profound statements are simple. The challenge is that simple doesn't mean easy. I once had a friend (who could eat all he wanted like 5 bowls of ice cream a day an NEVER gain weight) yell at another friend trying to loose weight: "just don't eat!" Yea right. Very simple and EASY to say. Hard to do. And, that's communication, a simple concept that's hard to do and yet we must.
The author encourages us to: admit mistakes, tell your needs, share what you're thinking. Most of us as leaders think this is dangerous. And, it is. It will unleash a unifying power like we have never seen before when we connect with others at the deepest level. I want to follow real people. None of us knows it al,l and none of us has it all together.
That all being said, we have to be truth tellers. And, that is just not easy. There is no "easy button" like Office Depot. But, we are told to speak the truth and love, seasoned with grace. We are called to be peace makers not peace keepers. And, we all know that a peace keeper does so through appeasement but there is never a real connection. A peace maker will speak the truth and strive towards peace through the truth. And, a peace maker is open to being wrong on a subject -- open to correction and admonition (more on this later). But, the bottom line is that "great relationships as well as great organizations are built on trust, and you build trust by telling the truth."
I want truth tellers in my life. In fact, yesterday, I asked a close friend to be a truth teller -- I gave him permission. I said, "I want you to tell me what I do well and what I do poorly. And, I want the truth." And now a personal example, I called a friend and told him a fear of mine a month or so ago. I thought he could probably relate. And, when I opened up -- was vulnerable (took off the mask), he ministered to me. It was refreshing. And, I don't think he thinks less of me.
If you are going to be a truth teller, always: (1) make sure that you have invested in the relationship, (2) pray and ask God if he would have you say it -- some times he just wants you to pray, (3) some times I ask a close confidant (not gossiping) the best manner to share my thought, and (4) be open to being wrong -- obviously you are a TRUTH teller and seeker. Now, about being open to correction (and that's hard!!!), I recently was speaking with a confidant about an issue that I thought maybe I should speak about. He told me, "no." And, that was it. I accepted his wisdom on that subject. I was wrong. But, I was thankful for his truth telling.
We all need truth tellers that are committed to our success -- our transformation into Christlikeness.
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
An Attitude of Gratitude
Today's message is about being thankful and developing that habit. Cicero said, "Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all others." The author had us look at the parable of the ten lepers that were healed and yet only one came back to thank Jesus -- a Samaritan. This is a powerful message in that many times we focus on what we don't have instead of what he do have. And, at times, we forget that God desires to transform us into the image of his son AT ALL COSTS. He is much more interested in our character than our comfort because of character determines the quality of our decisions and therefore the quality of of lives -- abundant lives.
The author mentioned that gratitude can "heal us spiritually, emotionally, and relationally." It increases our capacity to love much like in the way when the Grinch understood Christmas. "And some say that the Grinch's heart grew three sizes that day." You see, it is all about perspective. There are some many things to be grateful -- thankful -- for.
For example, my son is jumping off the bed. I can either tell him don't jump and choose to be upset. Or, I can tell him not to jump and be thankful that I have (1) a healthy son, (2) a bed to jump from, and (3) a house for that bed. What is it about me that would normally choose the former and not the latter? Perspective. I need to re-align perspectives. And, it is hard. But, as the author says that when we are grateful: (1) it increases the love among those around us and (2) increases our capacity to experience a full life without regrets.
Take some time today and think about things that my get you upset or are inconvenient and see how you can be grateful.
The author mentioned that gratitude can "heal us spiritually, emotionally, and relationally." It increases our capacity to love much like in the way when the Grinch understood Christmas. "And some say that the Grinch's heart grew three sizes that day." You see, it is all about perspective. There are some many things to be grateful -- thankful -- for.
For example, my son is jumping off the bed. I can either tell him don't jump and choose to be upset. Or, I can tell him not to jump and be thankful that I have (1) a healthy son, (2) a bed to jump from, and (3) a house for that bed. What is it about me that would normally choose the former and not the latter? Perspective. I need to re-align perspectives. And, it is hard. But, as the author says that when we are grateful: (1) it increases the love among those around us and (2) increases our capacity to experience a full life without regrets.
Take some time today and think about things that my get you upset or are inconvenient and see how you can be grateful.
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
Dreams
Today's reading is on dreams. Many of us put our dreams on the back burner to live a safe life or a life of obligation not a life of passion. But, God has called us to live a passionate life. And, a passionate life does not mean on devoid of responsibility. Rather a passionate life is where your passions and talents intersect allowing you to fulfill your responsibilities not out of duty or obligation but out of desire and joy. He says that true dreams of God make a difference in the lives of others. Moreover, he points out that God is not going to hijack your life. On the contrary, when God gives you a passion for something he wants you to go for it because it's incorporated in your being. He doesn't give you a passion for one dream and then call you to fulfill a life plan that's completely unrelated. That's not his character, nor is it good stewardship -- and he never wastes the resources he's created.
Quite a simple concept and yet very direct and impactful. It has challenged me. Ask God today:
-- where do my passions and talents intersect?
-- where can I have the greatest good for others?
Be still. Be open.
Quite a simple concept and yet very direct and impactful. It has challenged me. Ask God today:
-- where do my passions and talents intersect?
-- where can I have the greatest good for others?
Be still. Be open.
Monday, August 24, 2009
Risks
Today's session is about risks. The author talks about how we settle and don't risk for greatness in our lives -- heeding God's call. His point is that the things which we are called to and put off only keep our lives safe, comfortable, and (worst of all) mediocre. He quoted C.S. Lewis who said "too often we're like children who settle for playing in mud puddles when the beauty and immensity of the ocean are just a few feet away." Let that sink in. God has an ocean for us to play in. But, we have to take risks to get to it. He concludes with the thought that if we only had a month to live we wouldn't be worried about failing or wasting time, because regret would outweigh both of them. I would add that in God's economy there is no such thing as failure. God uses all of our experiences to make a mosaic.
Some times we have to let go of our plans to embrace God's plans for us. And, God will never disappoint us.
Take a moment and ask what God would have you risk today.
Some times we have to let go of our plans to embrace God's plans for us. And, God will never disappoint us.
Take a moment and ask what God would have you risk today.
Thursday, August 20, 2009
Time
Time -- we all have the same amount. And, there is no such thing as "Rollover Minutes" for time we "saved" up. In Life you cannot bank hours from one day and move them over to the next. It just doesn't work that way. So, the question for us is what do we do with our time? What is the wisest way to spend it?
It is said about David in Acts 13:36 "David, of course, having completed the work God set out for him, has been in the grave, dust and ashes, a long time now." In the time he was given, he completed the work that God set out for him. How awesome is that!? And David tell us in Psalm 39:4: "Lord, remind me how brief my time on earth will be. Remind me that my days are numbered—how fleeting my life is." And, 90:12: "So teach us to number our days, that we may get us a heart of wisdom."
Today, ask God to show you how you spend your time -- the most precious commodity you have. Ask him for a heart of wisdom. David did and the result for him was that he completed the work that God set out for him!
It is said about David in Acts 13:36 "David, of course, having completed the work God set out for him, has been in the grave, dust and ashes, a long time now." In the time he was given, he completed the work that God set out for him. How awesome is that!? And David tell us in Psalm 39:4: "Lord, remind me how brief my time on earth will be. Remind me that my days are numbered—how fleeting my life is." And, 90:12: "So teach us to number our days, that we may get us a heart of wisdom."
Today, ask God to show you how you spend your time -- the most precious commodity you have. Ask him for a heart of wisdom. David did and the result for him was that he completed the work that God set out for him!
Monday, August 17, 2009
Wrestling
Last night as I tucked JT in he wouldn't let my arm go. He did all he could to hold on. And, he told me to stay there. I pulled and got my arm out, but the message was clear. He was going to hold on as hard as he could. I would move one way and he would put the weight of his body on my arm. I move another, and he was there to counter my "move." He wasn't playing. Neither was I. I wanted out. He wanted me in. So, I continued the inquiry -- physically -- of how bad did he really want me in that bed. And, it was evident -- with all his might. So, I stayed.
In another story -- not mine but the Bible's, we are told of a man named Jacob that had a serious issue to contend with and inside that apparently supreme issue another is revealed. Let me set the stage. Jacob has stolen the birthright and he stole the final blessing of his father Isaac that was supposed to be for Esau. Esau and Jacob went their separate ways with Jacob going to live with his uncle and marrying two women (he himself was tricked into marrying the first wife when he really wanted the second). Now, he has been told by God to go back to the land of his relatives. Of course, the major issue that Jacob realizes is that he brother Esau -- a fierce warrior -- is in that land and won't be happy looking to exact revenge. In fact, Jacob's messengers said that Easu was so "excited" to see him that Esau was on the move with 400 men! So, to appease his brother he sends a series of gifts, and the scene is set for the meeting which is to take place the next morning.
In preparation for the encounter Jacob sends all his family to the other side of the river and is alone in the camp. And, this is where the real lesson begins. While there, he wrestled with a "man" the whole night. When the man realized that he would not win the match he touched Jacob's hip and through it out of socket. My first impression is that it must have been some match. Upon further inquiry you realize just how powerful this man was. When he wanted to, he simply touched Jacob's hip and Jacob was injured for life. But, as we continue, we see that even with this injury Jacob held on and said he would not let go unless this man blessed him. When the man heard this, he asked what Jacob's name was. Why did he ask for Jacob's name? He didn't need to know Jacob's name to bless him. The reality is that he already knew Jacob's name. But, the man wanted Jacob to admit who Jacob was. The text reveals that Jacob was in shock and whispered his name. You see his name meant "supplanter, schemer, trickster, swindler." And, to be in a position of blessing, Jacob had to come to face the reality of who he was based on the decision he had made.
Immediately upon hearing Jacob's name, the man told Jacob that "Your name shall be called no more Jacob [supplanter], but Israel [contender with God]; for you have contended and have power with God and with men and have prevailed." Jacob was given a new name -- Israel. His encounter with God (not some "man") changed him. But, the change began with a simple confession -- even a whisper of one. God pronounced a blessing on Jacob that day and then left him.
Here are some of my thoughts:
1. To be in a position of blessing we have to be willing to wrestle with God.
2. To be in a position of blessing we have to be willing to admit our shortcomings.
3. Israel ended up limping for the rest of his life and yet he was blessed by God -- the 12 tribes came from him. God can do more with an injured man or woman that he can with a fully healthy one. "But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me." 2 Cor. 12:9. You see, God's power rests on those that are dependent on him. Are you willing to let God injure you? I don't think God takes pleasure in our pain. But, he wants to transform our character and sometimes the greatest injuries to us do the greatest good -- tearing down our pride.....
4. Israel thought the issue was Esau. The issue wasn't at all Esau. The issue was Jacob. And, once God dealt with Jacob, the Esau issue was taken care of -- Esau forgave Israel. Are there issues that you see that seem to be too large? Is it possible that God is trying to get you to wrestle with him, to admit to him you actions, to let him change your name? Ask...
5. JT won you know. He wrestled with me and got the blessing -- me to sleep in his bed. Sure, I could have left and said "no." But, seeing how bad he wanted me to stay there I did. How often does God say come on "wrestle" with me, and we just say "no." Oh that we could have the faith of a child like JT believing that if we wrestle long enough God will bless us.
In another story -- not mine but the Bible's, we are told of a man named Jacob that had a serious issue to contend with and inside that apparently supreme issue another is revealed. Let me set the stage. Jacob has stolen the birthright and he stole the final blessing of his father Isaac that was supposed to be for Esau. Esau and Jacob went their separate ways with Jacob going to live with his uncle and marrying two women (he himself was tricked into marrying the first wife when he really wanted the second). Now, he has been told by God to go back to the land of his relatives. Of course, the major issue that Jacob realizes is that he brother Esau -- a fierce warrior -- is in that land and won't be happy looking to exact revenge. In fact, Jacob's messengers said that Easu was so "excited" to see him that Esau was on the move with 400 men! So, to appease his brother he sends a series of gifts, and the scene is set for the meeting which is to take place the next morning.
In preparation for the encounter Jacob sends all his family to the other side of the river and is alone in the camp. And, this is where the real lesson begins. While there, he wrestled with a "man" the whole night. When the man realized that he would not win the match he touched Jacob's hip and through it out of socket. My first impression is that it must have been some match. Upon further inquiry you realize just how powerful this man was. When he wanted to, he simply touched Jacob's hip and Jacob was injured for life. But, as we continue, we see that even with this injury Jacob held on and said he would not let go unless this man blessed him. When the man heard this, he asked what Jacob's name was. Why did he ask for Jacob's name? He didn't need to know Jacob's name to bless him. The reality is that he already knew Jacob's name. But, the man wanted Jacob to admit who Jacob was. The text reveals that Jacob was in shock and whispered his name. You see his name meant "supplanter, schemer, trickster, swindler." And, to be in a position of blessing, Jacob had to come to face the reality of who he was based on the decision he had made.
Immediately upon hearing Jacob's name, the man told Jacob that "Your name shall be called no more Jacob [supplanter], but Israel [contender with God]; for you have contended and have power with God and with men and have prevailed." Jacob was given a new name -- Israel. His encounter with God (not some "man") changed him. But, the change began with a simple confession -- even a whisper of one. God pronounced a blessing on Jacob that day and then left him.
Here are some of my thoughts:
1. To be in a position of blessing we have to be willing to wrestle with God.
2. To be in a position of blessing we have to be willing to admit our shortcomings.
3. Israel ended up limping for the rest of his life and yet he was blessed by God -- the 12 tribes came from him. God can do more with an injured man or woman that he can with a fully healthy one. "But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me." 2 Cor. 12:9. You see, God's power rests on those that are dependent on him. Are you willing to let God injure you? I don't think God takes pleasure in our pain. But, he wants to transform our character and sometimes the greatest injuries to us do the greatest good -- tearing down our pride.....
4. Israel thought the issue was Esau. The issue wasn't at all Esau. The issue was Jacob. And, once God dealt with Jacob, the Esau issue was taken care of -- Esau forgave Israel. Are there issues that you see that seem to be too large? Is it possible that God is trying to get you to wrestle with him, to admit to him you actions, to let him change your name? Ask...
5. JT won you know. He wrestled with me and got the blessing -- me to sleep in his bed. Sure, I could have left and said "no." But, seeing how bad he wanted me to stay there I did. How often does God say come on "wrestle" with me, and we just say "no." Oh that we could have the faith of a child like JT believing that if we wrestle long enough God will bless us.
Friday, August 14, 2009
Listening
Many times I will ask JT a question and he has zoned out. And, it's not really that he has zoned out. Rather, my voice is unimportant to him at that time. So, I then say something like this, "OK, I guess I won't tell you the secret." Or, "Never mind, I will give Caitlin the prize." In that instant he normally says, "yes, daddy." Then, my voice becomes important. And, he always knew my voice. He heard it but he wasn't in the mood to listen -- the penguins of madagascar were on :).
Jesus says about himself (the shepherd) in John 10: 3 & 4 "and the sheep listen to his voice. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out. When he has brought out all his own, he goes on ahead of them, and his sheep follow him because they know his voice." And, in Rev. 3:20 he says, " “Look! I stand at the door and knock. If you hear my voice and open the door, I will come in, and we will share a meal together as friends."
He knows us by name and we know his voice. But, when we hear his voice, we have to open the door. To put it another way, those of us that are Christ followers can choose to be in a close relationship with Jesus -- sharing a "meal" with him as friends do -- or we can choose to remain luke warm. All Christ followers can hear him. Not all pay close enough attention to listen to him. We fill our days to the brim and have no built in down time. Then, we make decision from the hip instead of from the Shepherd's voice. The choice is mine -- yours. Will you make time to be still -- even five minutes in the morning and five in the afternoon to listen? Or, will we be like JT and to busy watching penguins that we miss the Shepherd?
Jesus says about himself (the shepherd) in John 10: 3 & 4 "and the sheep listen to his voice. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out. When he has brought out all his own, he goes on ahead of them, and his sheep follow him because they know his voice." And, in Rev. 3:20 he says, " “Look! I stand at the door and knock. If you hear my voice and open the door, I will come in, and we will share a meal together as friends."
He knows us by name and we know his voice. But, when we hear his voice, we have to open the door. To put it another way, those of us that are Christ followers can choose to be in a close relationship with Jesus -- sharing a "meal" with him as friends do -- or we can choose to remain luke warm. All Christ followers can hear him. Not all pay close enough attention to listen to him. We fill our days to the brim and have no built in down time. Then, we make decision from the hip instead of from the Shepherd's voice. The choice is mine -- yours. Will you make time to be still -- even five minutes in the morning and five in the afternoon to listen? Or, will we be like JT and to busy watching penguins that we miss the Shepherd?
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
I Did It My Way
Frank Sinatra has a song "My Way," which elevates the fact that he did life his way. I am amused how often we -- I -- say that we are willing to do whatever we need to do God's way and then do it our way -- my way. Jeremiah had to deal with the remnants of the people of Judah who claimed they wanted to do life God's way. They stated, "May the LORD be a true and faithful witness against us if we do not act in accordance with everything the LORD your God sends you to tell us. Whether it is favorable or unfavorable, we will obey the LORD our God, to whom we are sending you, so that it will go well with us, for we will obey the LORD our God."
And, they wait ten (10) days. Please note that this was not a moral issue. It was whether the remnants should stay in Judah (the others were in captivity in Babylon) or if they should go to Egypt where they wanted to go .
God's reply was simple: "Stay here in this land." But, the reality is that the remnant didn't want God's answer they wanted his blessing on THEIR decision -- Egypt. So, they lashed out at Jeremiah and Baruch (his scribe) saying, "You lie!" And, they went to Egypt.
I am amazed at the decisions that we make and then ask God's blessing (or forgiveness), as the saying goes it is easier to ask for forgiveness than permission. While it may be easier, the realty is that the consequences are far more reaching and devastating as we sow what we reap. There are areas in which we don't even need to ask, we just need to know his word:
1. Should I get drunk?
2. Should I marry this non-believer?
3. Should I cheat on my spouse?
There are wisdom areas. The Bible -- and proverbs in particular -- has a ton of wisdom in how we should do life (i.e. should I sign this note for a friend? Who should I go into business with?).
Then, there are the areas in which we need to listen and ask of him what is the wisest decision. Most of us, however, get stuck in the first two. And, if we aren't willing to do what God already has made clear (the first two), then how are we in a position to hear him in the last area?
We should be willing to do whatever God had made clear. And, we should be willing to listen on items that involve what is the wisest decision to make.
The story on the issue with the remnants ends with Baruch being upset that he is affected by the others decision (which, by the way, is important for us as leaders of our family or businesses -- we take people with us). God tells him: "I will give you your life as a reward wherever you go." That's it. Nothing else. He and Jeremiah have been faithful and the reward is his life. Of course, that is, his reward on this side of eternity.
When facing an important decision, ask God for guidance and direction, not blessing. And, for a moment today, ask God how you can store up rewards on the other side of eternity, that is where they count!
And, they wait ten (10) days. Please note that this was not a moral issue. It was whether the remnants should stay in Judah (the others were in captivity in Babylon) or if they should go to Egypt where they wanted to go .
God's reply was simple: "Stay here in this land." But, the reality is that the remnant didn't want God's answer they wanted his blessing on THEIR decision -- Egypt. So, they lashed out at Jeremiah and Baruch (his scribe) saying, "You lie!" And, they went to Egypt.
I am amazed at the decisions that we make and then ask God's blessing (or forgiveness), as the saying goes it is easier to ask for forgiveness than permission. While it may be easier, the realty is that the consequences are far more reaching and devastating as we sow what we reap. There are areas in which we don't even need to ask, we just need to know his word:
1. Should I get drunk?
2. Should I marry this non-believer?
3. Should I cheat on my spouse?
There are wisdom areas. The Bible -- and proverbs in particular -- has a ton of wisdom in how we should do life (i.e. should I sign this note for a friend? Who should I go into business with?).
Then, there are the areas in which we need to listen and ask of him what is the wisest decision. Most of us, however, get stuck in the first two. And, if we aren't willing to do what God already has made clear (the first two), then how are we in a position to hear him in the last area?
We should be willing to do whatever God had made clear. And, we should be willing to listen on items that involve what is the wisest decision to make.
The story on the issue with the remnants ends with Baruch being upset that he is affected by the others decision (which, by the way, is important for us as leaders of our family or businesses -- we take people with us). God tells him: "I will give you your life as a reward wherever you go." That's it. Nothing else. He and Jeremiah have been faithful and the reward is his life. Of course, that is, his reward on this side of eternity.
When facing an important decision, ask God for guidance and direction, not blessing. And, for a moment today, ask God how you can store up rewards on the other side of eternity, that is where they count!
Monday, August 10, 2009
Jesus on Trial
We all have some recollection of Jesus being captured and being put on trial in front of Pilate. In John 18, we see the story unfold. And, Pilate asks a simple question, "What have you done?" (35). Of course, what had he done? He healed the blind, cured the deaf and lame, cast out demons, raised the dead, calmed the seas, fed the multitudes, allowed the disciples to go into storms....And, I want to stop right there. Storms.
Jesus was on trial for doing nothing but good. And, as I read this verse, I realize that I put him on trial too. It goes something like this with the interrogatories: Why would you allow this financial crisis? Why would you allow that accident to occur? Why wouldn't you just make that go away, you can!? And, his response to Pilate and me are the same: "You say I am a king. Actually, I was born and came into the world to testify to the truth. All who love the truth recognize that what I say is true.” But, here is the kicker, don't we at times respond to Jesus with the same response of Pilate "What is truth?”
Real simple. Truth is the reality of life based on facts, not on emotions or feelings. My feeling: God I feel abandoned, betrayed. His truth, I will never leave you or forsake you. But, I feel.....yes, but feelings are fickle and God is faithful.
God gives hope that is real. An actual promise of a better tomorrow -- maybe in circumstances but certainly in my character and relationship to him -- that will come true. And, so, as I end my interrogatories, I adjust. I realize truth (unlike Pilate) is a person -- Jesus. We all have a little Pilate in us. We all question. But, the real question, is who is truth, not what.
Jesus was on trial for doing nothing but good. And, as I read this verse, I realize that I put him on trial too. It goes something like this with the interrogatories: Why would you allow this financial crisis? Why would you allow that accident to occur? Why wouldn't you just make that go away, you can!? And, his response to Pilate and me are the same: "You say I am a king. Actually, I was born and came into the world to testify to the truth. All who love the truth recognize that what I say is true.” But, here is the kicker, don't we at times respond to Jesus with the same response of Pilate "What is truth?”
Real simple. Truth is the reality of life based on facts, not on emotions or feelings. My feeling: God I feel abandoned, betrayed. His truth, I will never leave you or forsake you. But, I feel.....yes, but feelings are fickle and God is faithful.
God gives hope that is real. An actual promise of a better tomorrow -- maybe in circumstances but certainly in my character and relationship to him -- that will come true. And, so, as I end my interrogatories, I adjust. I realize truth (unlike Pilate) is a person -- Jesus. We all have a little Pilate in us. We all question. But, the real question, is who is truth, not what.
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Contentment
Yesterday, we buried my grandmother. She was 92 so she lived a long life. She had very little but she was happy. Quite interesting I think. She was different (we all are to some degree). But, she would paint her own car. And, one day she received a bright orange notice from the city re a violation. Instead of "curing" the violation, she simply cut out a piece of cardboard to match the size of the notice and put it over the notice -- out of sight, out of mind. Really something. While I can't say I agree with all the decisions she made, I think she made one and kept it -- contentment. Song of Songs says, "I slept, but my heart was awake." (5:2). Have you ever been in that situation? You sleep but you really don't. Your mind will not let you sleep? There are times when this can be almost unavoidable, like the night before your wedding. But, for the most part (if not a physical issue), it shouldn't be for us; not if we find contentment.
I Tim 6:6 says, "But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it." Paul is addressing those that think that riches bring joy. They don't. He underscores it with the fact that nothing leaves with you. And, Paul was not a poor man. In Phil. 4:11-12, Paul says, "Not that I was ever in need, for I have learned how to be content with whatever I have. I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little. For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength." Paul had much and he had little. But, he focus was not on the what but the WHO. He focused on Christ. And, because of who he focused on and hoped in, he had contentment.
All that being said, if you have the ability to make wealth, make it. But, don't hope in it. Use your gifts for the most good. Don't be lazy. But also, don't hope in something other than Christ. And, if you are not sure if you are hoping in something other than Christ, then ask a simple question: If he took it all away, could you be content? Be honest. He already knows the answer. Ask him to guide you to contentment. It's a process we are all on.
I Tim 6:6 says, "But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it." Paul is addressing those that think that riches bring joy. They don't. He underscores it with the fact that nothing leaves with you. And, Paul was not a poor man. In Phil. 4:11-12, Paul says, "Not that I was ever in need, for I have learned how to be content with whatever I have. I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little. For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength." Paul had much and he had little. But, he focus was not on the what but the WHO. He focused on Christ. And, because of who he focused on and hoped in, he had contentment.
All that being said, if you have the ability to make wealth, make it. But, don't hope in it. Use your gifts for the most good. Don't be lazy. But also, don't hope in something other than Christ. And, if you are not sure if you are hoping in something other than Christ, then ask a simple question: If he took it all away, could you be content? Be honest. He already knows the answer. Ask him to guide you to contentment. It's a process we are all on.
Monday, August 3, 2009
Win the Relationship
I was speaking with my wife recently and we discussed the fact that it is better to win the relationship than to win the debate or discussion. This takes place in two areas of life. want to first examine human relationships and then, briefly, our relationship with God. Let me explain.
There are areas in life that are black and white. In those areas, we need to be crystal clear. But, there are fewer of those areas than we (and I) would like to admit. And, there are areas that are less clear or require deeper thought and exploration to determine what is right.
For example, my friend and I were discussing that a church he attends (not in SOFLA) requires that you agree not to drink alcohol. His perspective is that this requirement is not biblical (and I don't disagree). To be quite honest, I get concerned when a church tries to define God's morality based upon a "yea, but, this is what could happen if....." It takes out the role of the H.S. in the believer's life. But, suffice it to say that I have been a member of a church that did not allow one to drink alcohol. I said to my friend, "if you believe this is the church God wants you at, then go there and be in submission. Then, see if you can begin to speak with those in leadership about the reasons why they have made that rule." My point was that he could win the debate (with the pastor now) or win the relationship.
As I have journeyed in life, I have realized (but make mistakes continually) that winning the relationship is more important. Because, if you win the relationship, you will have the ability to influence those you are in relationship with. If you win the debate, and have no relationship, then what is the benefit? God tells Jeremiah: "you are to influence them..." Now, in this context it was relating to the wayward children of Israel. But, the bigger lesson is clear for all of us -- influence. We are to influence others, but this comes in the context of relationship. This is why I say it is better to win the relationship than the discussion. It is much harder to develop and nurture a relationship. Nonetheless, if you truly want to help people and be helped, choose relationship.
It is much simpler and yet more difficult in our relationship with God. Many times, we have no answers for the "why" and we are left with exercising faith in his promises or his principles, which is difficult. In fact, all God wants us to do is agree with him.
In Mark 12:28-34, Jesus is asked what is the most important commandment, and he responds with the most important commandment(s). What is interesting to me, though, is that after Jesus spoke, the scribe commended Jesus and agreed with what Jesus said simply repeating Jesus' words. Then, this is written, "When Jesus saw that he had answered wisely, he said to him, "You are not far from the kingdom of God."
Amazing! The scribe's "wise" answer was to simply agree with Jesus and Jesus gave him the answer! Could it be any simpler? Agree with the answer God has already given on the subject. And, yet, for most of us, the simple is very hard -- not easy. The reality is that many times we don't like the answer -- I know I don't. But, if we want lasting peace in our lives and we want God's best, then in any area of our lives, we will simply agree with him.
Having a challenge with a person or trying to help someone understand an issue from your perspective? Choose relationship, which leads to influence.
Having a challenge deciding what is best to do for your life? Agree with God.
There are areas in life that are black and white. In those areas, we need to be crystal clear. But, there are fewer of those areas than we (and I) would like to admit. And, there are areas that are less clear or require deeper thought and exploration to determine what is right.
For example, my friend and I were discussing that a church he attends (not in SOFLA) requires that you agree not to drink alcohol. His perspective is that this requirement is not biblical (and I don't disagree). To be quite honest, I get concerned when a church tries to define God's morality based upon a "yea, but, this is what could happen if....." It takes out the role of the H.S. in the believer's life. But, suffice it to say that I have been a member of a church that did not allow one to drink alcohol. I said to my friend, "if you believe this is the church God wants you at, then go there and be in submission. Then, see if you can begin to speak with those in leadership about the reasons why they have made that rule." My point was that he could win the debate (with the pastor now) or win the relationship.
As I have journeyed in life, I have realized (but make mistakes continually) that winning the relationship is more important. Because, if you win the relationship, you will have the ability to influence those you are in relationship with. If you win the debate, and have no relationship, then what is the benefit? God tells Jeremiah: "you are to influence them..." Now, in this context it was relating to the wayward children of Israel. But, the bigger lesson is clear for all of us -- influence. We are to influence others, but this comes in the context of relationship. This is why I say it is better to win the relationship than the discussion. It is much harder to develop and nurture a relationship. Nonetheless, if you truly want to help people and be helped, choose relationship.
It is much simpler and yet more difficult in our relationship with God. Many times, we have no answers for the "why" and we are left with exercising faith in his promises or his principles, which is difficult. In fact, all God wants us to do is agree with him.
In Mark 12:28-34, Jesus is asked what is the most important commandment, and he responds with the most important commandment(s). What is interesting to me, though, is that after Jesus spoke, the scribe commended Jesus and agreed with what Jesus said simply repeating Jesus' words. Then, this is written, "When Jesus saw that he had answered wisely, he said to him, "You are not far from the kingdom of God."
Amazing! The scribe's "wise" answer was to simply agree with Jesus and Jesus gave him the answer! Could it be any simpler? Agree with the answer God has already given on the subject. And, yet, for most of us, the simple is very hard -- not easy. The reality is that many times we don't like the answer -- I know I don't. But, if we want lasting peace in our lives and we want God's best, then in any area of our lives, we will simply agree with him.
Having a challenge with a person or trying to help someone understand an issue from your perspective? Choose relationship, which leads to influence.
Having a challenge deciding what is best to do for your life? Agree with God.
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
There's Never A Good Time
Last night at 11:00 I got a call to my house. And, normally a call that late is either from a different time zone, great news, or bad news. In my case it was the latter. I was told that my grandma -- at over 90 years old -- had passed away. My parents and sister are out of town in Scotland. And, I told my wife, there is never a good time for death, but could this be worse? Four people that I am relationally connected to have died in the last month. That has never happened before. And, so, I am confronted with the fact that death is real; but so is life. In fact, death is the vehicle to life.
Putting a "physical" death on the side for a second, God wants us to put to death things in our lives. He wants us to put to death anything that interferes with our life with him. It doesn't mean that we can have gifts. In fact, every good and perfect gift is from above and is given for our enjoyment (James 1:17 and I Tim 6:17). But, could God be taking you through a period of death so that you can really live? I pause for now and look at the circumstances in my life and ask for God's wisdom in how to interpret the invents so that I know what he would have me do....and listen....
Putting a "physical" death on the side for a second, God wants us to put to death things in our lives. He wants us to put to death anything that interferes with our life with him. It doesn't mean that we can have gifts. In fact, every good and perfect gift is from above and is given for our enjoyment (James 1:17 and I Tim 6:17). But, could God be taking you through a period of death so that you can really live? I pause for now and look at the circumstances in my life and ask for God's wisdom in how to interpret the invents so that I know what he would have me do....and listen....
Monday, July 27, 2009
You Are My All in All
I was reflecting today on the fact that God wants to be our all. And the lyrics to this song came to mind:
You are my strength when I am weak
You are the treasure that I seek
You are my all in all
Seeking You as a precious jewel
Lord, to give up I'd be a fool
You are my all in all
Just a few questions:
1. Do you seek him as a treasure?
2. Do you seek him as a precious jewel?
3. When things don't go your way do you ask him to fix them -- primarily -- or do you ask him to draw you closer and to learn what he wants to teach?
He's supposed to be our all in all.
Man, not one of those questions is easy for me....
You are my strength when I am weak
You are the treasure that I seek
You are my all in all
Seeking You as a precious jewel
Lord, to give up I'd be a fool
You are my all in all
Just a few questions:
1. Do you seek him as a treasure?
2. Do you seek him as a precious jewel?
3. When things don't go your way do you ask him to fix them -- primarily -- or do you ask him to draw you closer and to learn what he wants to teach?
He's supposed to be our all in all.
Man, not one of those questions is easy for me....
Friday, July 24, 2009
You're Gonna Miss This
Many of you would find it hard to believe that I like country music (I do too, trust me.....and an old girlfriend's jaw would drop). In any event, Trace Adkins has a song that I would like us to look at a few verses of.
She was staring out that window, of that SUV
Complaining, saying I can't wait to turn 18
She said I'll make my own money, and I'll make my own rules
Mamma put the car in park out there in front of the school
Then she kissed her head and said I was just like you
You're gonna miss this
You're gonna want this back
You're gonna wish these days hadn't gone by so fast
These Are Some Good Times
So take a good look around
You may not know it now
But you're gonna miss this
Before she knows it she's a brand new bride
In a one-bedroom apartment, and her daddy stops by
He tells her It's a nice place
She says It'll do for now
Starts talking about babies and buying a house
Daddy shakes his head and says Baby, just slow down.
I am writing to me and the guys like me. I understand that the Bible tells us to consider the ant o sluggard. But, the guys I am speaking to -- including me -- don't have that problem. Our problem is that the ant looks at us and gets tired.....
Well, the Bible has something to say about that to us as well. In Luke 10:38-42, the following takes place:
As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord's feet listening to what he said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, "Lord, don't you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!""Martha, Martha," the Lord answered, "you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.
Now, I get the primary point of this passage is relating to the fact that Jesus is what is better. But, there is a principle at work here: We can miss the important because of the urgent. The urgent may be work, a deal, church work, vacation (yes that can be), sporting event, even fishing (that's hard for me to admit). But, the point is that we need to have margin and have freedom to rest and freedom to "Baby, just slow down." Or, we're gonna miss this. You read the rest of the chorus. What I am not saying is that we should neglect responsibilities. Heck, Paul says, if you don't work you don't eat. But, the guys I am talking to don't have that problem. Would you rather have $1,000,000 in the bank or a child that follows God and with whom you have a relationship? Would you rather seal that deal or have your daughter sit in your lap and say, "you're the best?" I'll stop cuz we all know the answer. And, if you think something different ask Madoff if you can talk with him.
Let me say this. The "responsibilities" we have that make us not stop in certain areas are self-imposed many times: $5,000 house payment, $1,500 boat payment, etc. My job to make so much wouldn't be necessary if I didn't "live" so much. Of course, Paul tells us to "take hold of the life that is really life." (I Tim 6:19). So, am I really living "life"?
Here's the really simple (yet hard) question: Are we distracted by all the preparations that had [have] to be made? Are we distracted by the urgent? Have we put "responsibilities" on us that are not real? You figure it out; I aint gonna miss the important because Trace is right when he says one day "you're gonna miss this."
She was staring out that window, of that SUV
Complaining, saying I can't wait to turn 18
She said I'll make my own money, and I'll make my own rules
Mamma put the car in park out there in front of the school
Then she kissed her head and said I was just like you
You're gonna miss this
You're gonna want this back
You're gonna wish these days hadn't gone by so fast
These Are Some Good Times
So take a good look around
You may not know it now
But you're gonna miss this
Before she knows it she's a brand new bride
In a one-bedroom apartment, and her daddy stops by
He tells her It's a nice place
She says It'll do for now
Starts talking about babies and buying a house
Daddy shakes his head and says Baby, just slow down.
I am writing to me and the guys like me. I understand that the Bible tells us to consider the ant o sluggard. But, the guys I am speaking to -- including me -- don't have that problem. Our problem is that the ant looks at us and gets tired.....
Well, the Bible has something to say about that to us as well. In Luke 10:38-42, the following takes place:
As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord's feet listening to what he said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, "Lord, don't you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!""Martha, Martha," the Lord answered, "you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.
Now, I get the primary point of this passage is relating to the fact that Jesus is what is better. But, there is a principle at work here: We can miss the important because of the urgent. The urgent may be work, a deal, church work, vacation (yes that can be), sporting event, even fishing (that's hard for me to admit). But, the point is that we need to have margin and have freedom to rest and freedom to "Baby, just slow down." Or, we're gonna miss this. You read the rest of the chorus. What I am not saying is that we should neglect responsibilities. Heck, Paul says, if you don't work you don't eat. But, the guys I am talking to don't have that problem. Would you rather have $1,000,000 in the bank or a child that follows God and with whom you have a relationship? Would you rather seal that deal or have your daughter sit in your lap and say, "you're the best?" I'll stop cuz we all know the answer. And, if you think something different ask Madoff if you can talk with him.
Let me say this. The "responsibilities" we have that make us not stop in certain areas are self-imposed many times: $5,000 house payment, $1,500 boat payment, etc. My job to make so much wouldn't be necessary if I didn't "live" so much. Of course, Paul tells us to "take hold of the life that is really life." (I Tim 6:19). So, am I really living "life"?
Here's the really simple (yet hard) question: Are we distracted by all the preparations that had [have] to be made? Are we distracted by the urgent? Have we put "responsibilities" on us that are not real? You figure it out; I aint gonna miss the important because Trace is right when he says one day "you're gonna miss this."
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
All By MySELF
JT and I went swimming yesterday in the pool. And, I asked him to swim under water with me. So, I said, "watch me." And, he began with his correction, "I can do it all by my SELF!" So, we continued to swim and as we did there were times in which he needed my help and he didn't realize it. So, I helped him -- letting him think he was doing it. And, then there were times in which I told him that he couldn't and helped him. But, the point is that I was shadowing him, watching his every move.
Later, I had to put him in time out because of his behavior. He didn't like that much at all. While he was sitting in time out, and after he had behaved correctly, he screamed, "daddy, help." His leg got caught. So, I got up and helped him out of the chair..
Isaiah 30:19 says, "He will respond instantly to the sound of your cries." What is it about cries that make us respond? I think it is the fact that the person crying is saying (and I mean not faking) there is nothing else I can do. I am done! And, I think that we all desire to respond to someone that truly wants help. God will let us wander. And, he won't always stop the natural consequence of our decisions -- unfortunately, many times we reap what we sow. But, He will respond. And, when He does, he will say, "This is the way; turn around and walk here" (21). How cool is that! He will guide you. But, your crying must be real. God doesn't respond to unauthentic cries. And, the easiest way to know if our cries are authentic is the fruit. "Then you will destroy all your silver idols and gold images. You will throw them out like filthy rages. 'Ugh!' you will say to them. Be-gone!" (22).
You see, none of us wants to be played. How much less does God? And, he won't be played. It's real simple, not easy. Do you want God's help? Have you wandered? Do you desire to keep the closeness? Then, cry. Be honest. Be ready and willing to say "Be-gone" to anything.
Later, I had to put him in time out because of his behavior. He didn't like that much at all. While he was sitting in time out, and after he had behaved correctly, he screamed, "daddy, help." His leg got caught. So, I got up and helped him out of the chair..
Isaiah 30:19 says, "He will respond instantly to the sound of your cries." What is it about cries that make us respond? I think it is the fact that the person crying is saying (and I mean not faking) there is nothing else I can do. I am done! And, I think that we all desire to respond to someone that truly wants help. God will let us wander. And, he won't always stop the natural consequence of our decisions -- unfortunately, many times we reap what we sow. But, He will respond. And, when He does, he will say, "This is the way; turn around and walk here" (21). How cool is that! He will guide you. But, your crying must be real. God doesn't respond to unauthentic cries. And, the easiest way to know if our cries are authentic is the fruit. "Then you will destroy all your silver idols and gold images. You will throw them out like filthy rages. 'Ugh!' you will say to them. Be-gone!" (22).
You see, none of us wants to be played. How much less does God? And, he won't be played. It's real simple, not easy. Do you want God's help? Have you wandered? Do you desire to keep the closeness? Then, cry. Be honest. Be ready and willing to say "Be-gone" to anything.
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Rumblings of Discontent
I was drawn to Acts 6 today and read over a passage that I really love because it deals with effective leadership -- in this instance spiritual leadership. Many times in churches we are told to "follow the leadership." I think that submission is completely necessary. But, the Bible does not say that we are to not have opinions and perspectives and that they shouldn't be shared. In these passages we see that effective leadership doesn't squash opinions it listens and is influenced by them. Let me share a caveat to this. Many of these thoughts are not original as I have heard a great sermon on this from a former pastor a long time ago. So, some of the thoughts are his. Some are mine.
The Setting: The first point to note is that the church is growing! This is a great "problem" to have. So, if we are in churches that are being effective in reaching those that do not know Christ, this will be a great passage to learn from. The second thing to note is that there was "rumbling" or murmuring about an issue. The next point is that there were two distinct cultures (Hebrew and Greek) inside the community -- so different contexts for doing life.
The Response: Effective leaders have their ear to the ground. They have a pulse beat of where their followers are. They want constant feedback and are not defensive because they realize that many times innovation occurs as a result of an outsider, not an insider (see information on paradigm shift in the business world for data on that if you would like). And, they understand the paralyzing and detrimental effect that groupthink can have on an organization (google groupthink for information on that term, if desired). The apostles knew there was an issue and were open to finding a way to solve the issue -- they were servants. They also knew that (a) their highest use was not serving food and (b) for commitment you need involvement. So, the apostles called together a meeting of all the believers (please note that this could have been well over 20,000 people) asking them to select seven men with certain qualities to serve (on a side note, I would bet the apostles had veto power if the people's perception about the seven wasn't accurate with what the apostles knew about qualities needed).
The Result: The people agreed and selected seven GREEK men to serve. Remember, it was the Greek believers that were "rumbling." And, God's word spread and the number of believers greatly increased.
Thoughts: We are all leaders and followers. As a leader, do you foster an environment in your home, office, or church where people can raise their concerns? Are you open to a paradigm shift? Do you watch our for groupthink?
As a follower, do you respectfully tell your parent, spouse, boss, or pastor what your perspectives are? Do you allow your leaders to lead? Do you show submission to their decisions when made as if your own?
The Setting: The first point to note is that the church is growing! This is a great "problem" to have. So, if we are in churches that are being effective in reaching those that do not know Christ, this will be a great passage to learn from. The second thing to note is that there was "rumbling" or murmuring about an issue. The next point is that there were two distinct cultures (Hebrew and Greek) inside the community -- so different contexts for doing life.
The Response: Effective leaders have their ear to the ground. They have a pulse beat of where their followers are. They want constant feedback and are not defensive because they realize that many times innovation occurs as a result of an outsider, not an insider (see information on paradigm shift in the business world for data on that if you would like). And, they understand the paralyzing and detrimental effect that groupthink can have on an organization (google groupthink for information on that term, if desired). The apostles knew there was an issue and were open to finding a way to solve the issue -- they were servants. They also knew that (a) their highest use was not serving food and (b) for commitment you need involvement. So, the apostles called together a meeting of all the believers (please note that this could have been well over 20,000 people) asking them to select seven men with certain qualities to serve (on a side note, I would bet the apostles had veto power if the people's perception about the seven wasn't accurate with what the apostles knew about qualities needed).
The Result: The people agreed and selected seven GREEK men to serve. Remember, it was the Greek believers that were "rumbling." And, God's word spread and the number of believers greatly increased.
Thoughts: We are all leaders and followers. As a leader, do you foster an environment in your home, office, or church where people can raise their concerns? Are you open to a paradigm shift? Do you watch our for groupthink?
As a follower, do you respectfully tell your parent, spouse, boss, or pastor what your perspectives are? Do you allow your leaders to lead? Do you show submission to their decisions when made as if your own?
Monday, July 20, 2009
Storm Shelter
When a hurricane hits Sofla, storm shelters open. And, when a tornado is barreling down the midwest, people go to the shelter. Storm shelters are not the most comfortable place, but they do meet the most important need at that time -- shelter from the storm (safety).
In Isaiah 25:4, it is said about God that "to the needy in distress you are a shelter ..." No one appreciates -- totally -- a shelter until it is needed. And, when it is needed it is the greatest gift that you could ever receive. Just ask the people from Hurricane Andrew or those from the more recent Hurricane Katrina. While those shelters didn't even resemble home, they provided the greatest need those people had. You see shelters are most appreciated in a storm.
Applying that to our walk, if we think of God as only a shelter, I think we've missed the point. God has much more for us than a shelter, but HE IS a shelter when needed. In fact, we are told to abide in him and he will abide in us. But, there are times in which even the abiding isn't enough for us to receive what we need -- a continued transformation into Christlikness. Paul tells us to "work out our salvation." You work out something you have already so he's not talking about earning our salvation. Rather, he is talking about our continued transformation. Sometimes, we need a shock to grow. For example, when working out, our muscles become "used" to the training and begin to plateau. Because of this, you will change your routine -- varying the amount of weight, the repetitions, frequency, and exercises -- all in the hopes of shocking the muscle into growth. In fact, the muscle growth is a result of being torn down and rebuilt.
Sometimes, the only way for transformation is shock -- we call it a trial. In the moment of a trial we learn something about ourselves and something about God that we didn't know before or not to such depth. And, as we abide in him, he takes us to a "shelter" we've never known -- never needed. But, in taking us to that shelter, our faith muscles are torn down. And, then, the muscles are rebuilt stronger than before -- they are shocked into growth.
Anyone need a shelter? I know I do. It's always open. But, I have to go; I can't stay where I am and use the shelter.
In Isaiah 25:4, it is said about God that "to the needy in distress you are a shelter ..." No one appreciates -- totally -- a shelter until it is needed. And, when it is needed it is the greatest gift that you could ever receive. Just ask the people from Hurricane Andrew or those from the more recent Hurricane Katrina. While those shelters didn't even resemble home, they provided the greatest need those people had. You see shelters are most appreciated in a storm.
Applying that to our walk, if we think of God as only a shelter, I think we've missed the point. God has much more for us than a shelter, but HE IS a shelter when needed. In fact, we are told to abide in him and he will abide in us. But, there are times in which even the abiding isn't enough for us to receive what we need -- a continued transformation into Christlikness. Paul tells us to "work out our salvation." You work out something you have already so he's not talking about earning our salvation. Rather, he is talking about our continued transformation. Sometimes, we need a shock to grow. For example, when working out, our muscles become "used" to the training and begin to plateau. Because of this, you will change your routine -- varying the amount of weight, the repetitions, frequency, and exercises -- all in the hopes of shocking the muscle into growth. In fact, the muscle growth is a result of being torn down and rebuilt.
Sometimes, the only way for transformation is shock -- we call it a trial. In the moment of a trial we learn something about ourselves and something about God that we didn't know before or not to such depth. And, as we abide in him, he takes us to a "shelter" we've never known -- never needed. But, in taking us to that shelter, our faith muscles are torn down. And, then, the muscles are rebuilt stronger than before -- they are shocked into growth.
Anyone need a shelter? I know I do. It's always open. But, I have to go; I can't stay where I am and use the shelter.
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
It's a Jungle Some Times It Makes Me Wonder How I Keep From Going Under
I know, I know, this song is old skool but it epitomizes the thoughts I have at times. I am sure that many of us wonder why in the world does it feel like a jungle.....cuz it is. At times, there is calm. And, I am lured into a mistaken belief that we are not in a jungle. Of course, this is when the battle begins. The Bible says that in I Peter 5:8 ,"Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour."
I wanted to see how lion hunts as the devil's strategy is to hunt like that. And, here are some common elements of his style: opportunistic, in poor light conditions, stalking, short charges, often fails.
Taking those elements and applying them to our lives, we must know that he is stalking us, being opportunistic he waits to suggest "can you really trust God? or that person?" He attacks in poor light conditions. May I suggest that he attacks us when it appears that there is no hope? Light is often associated with good in the Bible. So, perhaps, he also seeks to mount an attack when we are distancing ourselves from fellowship (just thoughts). His attacks are short charges. I am not trying to diminish them. In fact, a short charge from a lion is very intense.....he tries to overwhelm his prey. Ever feel overwhelmed? And, he often fails. That's the good news. The devil always fails with believers! But, perhaps, we can learn to cage the lion. Below, I took an excerpt of how a lion is tamed.
"When Clyde Beatty made his debut about a century later, he used a whip, a gun and a chair to command his cats. You might be wondering why a chair would intimidate an animal as powerful as a lion. It's not that the lion is afraid of the chair -- it's that the lion is confused by the chair. Cats are single-minded, and the points of the chair's four legs bobbing around confuse the lion enough that it loses its train of thought. Casually put, the chair distracts the lion from wanting to claw the lion tamer's face off."
Cool to think that the lion can be tamed with a chair because of its single-mindedness. Well, the devil is single-minded too. His singular desire is to be God. It's that simple. You, I, we are part of the collateral damage if you will. But, make no mistake he wants to be God and lead a revolution in eternity past to get it. If he weren't the embodiment evil you might even fell sorry for this self-deluded being.
We are in jungle warfare -- the worst kind. And, God has given us amor to fend off attacks. They are found in Ephesians 6:10:
the belt of truth and the body armor of God’s righteousness, shoes of peace, shield of faith, helmet of salvation, and sword of the spirit. We don't have to tame the devil we can cage -- defeat -- him because "the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world." (1 John 4:4)
1 Peter 5:7 tells us to "Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you." He takes care of you (provision) and he cares for you (affection). Today, take time with me and actively cast your anxieties, see the devil's attacks for what they are, put on the amor, and go to war....we're already in it.
I wanted to see how lion hunts as the devil's strategy is to hunt like that. And, here are some common elements of his style: opportunistic, in poor light conditions, stalking, short charges, often fails.
Taking those elements and applying them to our lives, we must know that he is stalking us, being opportunistic he waits to suggest "can you really trust God? or that person?" He attacks in poor light conditions. May I suggest that he attacks us when it appears that there is no hope? Light is often associated with good in the Bible. So, perhaps, he also seeks to mount an attack when we are distancing ourselves from fellowship (just thoughts). His attacks are short charges. I am not trying to diminish them. In fact, a short charge from a lion is very intense.....he tries to overwhelm his prey. Ever feel overwhelmed? And, he often fails. That's the good news. The devil always fails with believers! But, perhaps, we can learn to cage the lion. Below, I took an excerpt of how a lion is tamed.
"When Clyde Beatty made his debut about a century later, he used a whip, a gun and a chair to command his cats. You might be wondering why a chair would intimidate an animal as powerful as a lion. It's not that the lion is afraid of the chair -- it's that the lion is confused by the chair. Cats are single-minded, and the points of the chair's four legs bobbing around confuse the lion enough that it loses its train of thought. Casually put, the chair distracts the lion from wanting to claw the lion tamer's face off."
Cool to think that the lion can be tamed with a chair because of its single-mindedness. Well, the devil is single-minded too. His singular desire is to be God. It's that simple. You, I, we are part of the collateral damage if you will. But, make no mistake he wants to be God and lead a revolution in eternity past to get it. If he weren't the embodiment evil you might even fell sorry for this self-deluded being.
We are in jungle warfare -- the worst kind. And, God has given us amor to fend off attacks. They are found in Ephesians 6:10:
the belt of truth and the body armor of God’s righteousness, shoes of peace, shield of faith, helmet of salvation, and sword of the spirit. We don't have to tame the devil we can cage -- defeat -- him because "the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world." (1 John 4:4)
1 Peter 5:7 tells us to "Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you." He takes care of you (provision) and he cares for you (affection). Today, take time with me and actively cast your anxieties, see the devil's attacks for what they are, put on the amor, and go to war....we're already in it.
Friday, July 10, 2009
Hand Holding
Last night JT asked me to sleep in the cabin room with him. And, I knew that the sleep would not be great. It never is. But, I also realized that there will be a time in which I want to sleep in the same bed and he doesn't. So I oblige. While in bed, he said, "daddy, will you hold my hand?" Wow! Even now it brings tears. He wanted to know I was there and it was all ok.
It got me thinking. If I am his daddy and I am willing to miss sleep and hold his hand to make him feel safe, what will our Daddy in heaven do if we just ask him? Luke says it this way, "Which of you fathers, if your son asks fora]" style="font-size: 0.75em; line-height: 0.5em; ">[a] a fish, will give him a snake instead? 12Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? 13If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!"
This speaks of the Holy Spirit. In other places, the Bible tells us we don't have because we don't ask. But, I want to focus for a minute on the Holy Spirit -- the paraclete, which means he walks (clete) along side us (para -- parallel). Where was I with JT? Along side of him. God tells us that if we ask, he will send the one that will walk along side of us to do some hand holding. What could be a better gift? It was the best gift for JT.
We all need hand holding. But, it is done in the context of relationship. I do it with JT because he is my son and he is fostering a relationship with me. Tell God you want to foster a relationship with him....that you will be still and give him undivided attention. Then, ask him to hold your hand. We all need it!
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Joy and the Battle
I have been going through the study guide of "Walking with God." One of his core assumptions is that God wants us to have joy and yet we don't have it because we make "agreements" in subtle ways that we will not have joy. As I was praying, I have come to realize that for some reason, I have agreed with the devil that there is a tragedy in my life or practice waiting to happen and that will rob my joy. So, why try. And, then, yesterday, a client communicated to me that he believed that I did not do something correctly. And, there it is....the devil coming to rob my joy. Only this time, I didn't make the agreement. I see the opportunity that God is giving me. He can still lead me to joy. So, this time I commit to joy. I ask Jesus to take the devil's control in this area of my life away. And, for now, I stop typing knowing that Jesus will be present in my meeting....I will pick up in a few...
So, I finish the meeting with the client and it went well. Then, the client comes back 3 hours later and says they want to continue with me. Praise God. Joy.....we all want it.....the devil steals it....and God delivers it...
Monday, July 6, 2009
Seeing Ahead
We've all been there before. We have been on one side or the other of a conversation in which it is said, "and then _____ happened right?" And, depending on which side you are on you either say, "man, how did I miss that?" or, "how did he miss that?"
And, of course, there are times when we are driving and we see a driver that is driving erratically, and we become "defensive" drivers. This can mean even getting off the interstate so as to no be in the person's path. We do it to avoid danger. It seems like for me it is easier to see "danger" coming in the physical realm involving driving or something like that.
For a moment, allow me to use some poetic license and define "danger" as the likely "bad" outcome if continuing on the same path or not making the wisest decision. We call something dangerous because it can or does have an adverse effect on us. So, then, not making the wisest decision can lead to "danger" or be dangerous.
I wrote about Acts 2:42 a few posts ago and the theme comes up again. Proverbs 24:26 says, "An honest answer is like a kiss of friendship." As I read that this morning, I thought this is how a prudent man sees danger. He sees it in community. He sees it with the "eyes" of friends committed to his success with whom he knows that an "honest answer is like a kiss of friendship."
So, I am reminded how necessary it is to be in deep community with friends pointed in the same direction to do life with....even when the "honest answer" hurts. The point of this passage isn't that the friend gives an encouraging or positive answer (though it may be one). Rather, it is that the friend gives an "honest" answer. And, then we must choose to receive it as a "kiss of friendship." That doesn't mean that the friend should be callous. Paul tell us to speak the truth in love. But, a true friend speaks the truth.
I want to see danger and seek refuge. And, I realize the need to have friends "seeing" for me and my being open to the honest answer. God, help me to develop and foster these relationships.
Friday, July 3, 2009
The Aftermath
Many of you saw the pictures of JT and his cut under his eye. Over the past few weeks, I have been thinking about how JT was injured. He disobeyed his dad and when he did it he ran. And, running, he slipped, and slipping he hit the corner of the bed frame requiring stitches.
My initial thoughts on this had been, what a great example of what occurs when we do not obey our dad's voice and his principles for living. That is, to violate those almost always results in a "bad" consequence. But, now I am convinced there was a greater message for me to see: How a dad responds when a child is hurting.
When JT hit that bed frame and cried, I didn't scold, spank, reprimand, reason, or scream. I called for mom and immediately put my finger over the wound. He was hurting and I wanted to heal him -- to restore him. I took him to the hospital. They put him in a device in which he couldn't move (mom said he was a "cheese roll"). They cleaned. He screamed. They stitched. He wanted out. But, I knew that to heal the wound and restore him, it needed to be done. And, now it hits me, God wants to heal and restore me. So, I ask....what needs to be healed, restored.....and, I choose to embrace it....
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Sunrises
I assume that most of us have seen sunrises. I have had the opportunity to see many sunrises while on the boat getting ready to do some fishing. And, there is an anticipation that I always have with it when I am on the water. I just look towards the east hoping that there will be just enough clouds so that when the dawn breaks it lights up the clouds with red, gold, violet, and rays. And, when it happens, it is a sight to behold.
Proverbs 4:18 says, "the way of the righteous is like the first gleam of dawn, which shines ever brighter until the full light of day." I got to thinking, when people know I am coming or I am a part of their team, do they get excited? Do they think, this will be awesome? I can't wait to see what takes place? Do they think, we know his integrity, we know his character, we know his great attitude? I want my "way" to be like that first gleam of dawn in which people say, we can't wait to see, like I do when I am on the water and I see that first gleam of dawn and say, man I can't wait to see this sunrise.....
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Praise
The last few Psalms are all about praise. I began to ask what is praise and how does one praise God. Many times in church we associate praise with music. While that is a component of praise, it is not praise in its totality. Praise is so much more. Praise is a lifestyle that expresses gratitude for what God has done. And, so praise begins with a proper perspective of self. Psalm 149:4 says that "the Lord delights in his people; he crowns the humble with salvation." Praise, then, begins with humility. I cannot express gratitude to someone if I think I deserve something or am owed something. Thus, praise flows out of an attitude of gratitude.
Attitudes are the governors of our lives. And, Jesus said that he who is forgiven much loves much. To say it another way, when we realize how much God has done for us, we can't help put to express gratitude which results in praise. We would all do well to slow down even for five minutes today and take an inventory of all that God has done. See if it results in praise.
Monday, June 29, 2009
Within Striking Distance
When we hear the word striking distance, we think maybe that the U.S. is within striking distance of North Korea with how things are now. Or, we think the Dolphins are within striking distance of making the playoffs. Webster defines it as "a distance from which something can be easily reached or attained."
Psalm 141:5 talks about us being within striking distance of godly people. It says, "Let the godly strike me! It will be a kindness! If they reprove me, it is soothing medicine. Don't let me refuse it." Let me unpack this in the context of Acts 2: 42-47.
These verses show a group of people that lived within striking distance of one another. They had devotion to God's word and each other. Out of this naturally flowed sharing with one another, having things in common, and meeting each other's needs. And, because of living out the devotion to God's word in the devotion to each other, there were miraculous signs, wonders, and awe. This then produced an attraction to those followers by those that were not followers and "the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved." And, to go full circle, the followers "ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people."
We can't do life alone. We can't do life from a distance if we want to live the abundant life (John 10:10) and grab hold of the life that is really life (1Tim. 6:19). We need to be within striking distance of people, close intimate proximity in which we know the needs (and ours are known), we can pray for each other, meet the needs of each other, and do life together. That's the way God intended it. And, when we do this, we challenge, exhort, and encourage each other in community. It's the only way it can happen. Then, a challenge or encouragement will be "medicine" or "kindness."
Who are you living within striking distance of? Who are you doing life with in community -- an Acts 2:42 community?
Friday, June 26, 2009
Unity
Whenever I hear of unity, it is always that the church should have unity. While that is completely accurate, I was reading today the following from Psalm 133 "how pleasant when brothers live in harmony." And, later, it says that "harmony is as refreshing as the dew that falls from Mr. Hermon....and the Lord has pronounced his blessing" where there is harmony. I got to thinking that I cannot recall a sermon on familial harmony -- husband, wife and kids -- with the most important being husband and wife. How can a church have complete harmony if the families that make up the church do not have harmony? But, for those of us that are Christ followers we should desire that harmony with our spouses and should seek it out. I know that for me sometimes I gloss over family harmony and assume that it is there. But, with all organisms, we should have "well-checks" to see where we are from a health perspective. My desire is the have the Lord's blessing pronounced firstly on my family. So, it's time for a well-check....
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